Some women believe it is necessary to pretend to be needy or weak at times in order to make their men feel more manly. Do you agree with this? Why or why not?
2007-07-23 09:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by MelloYello 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no, don't change yourself....that's what causes divorces
2007-07-23 09:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Carlos 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretending to be weak or needy is just a little bit of a lie, and lies can louse up a relationship real quick.
What either partner can do, which is not a lie, is to stop trying to carry around all your burdens by yourself. Let your man/woman know that they are loved and needed. Share. Ask each other's advice. Trust each other.
Otherwise, why are you in a relationship at all?
2007-07-23 09:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 16:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...ok, I do it, but not to make him feel manly!
For example. To get your man to clean out the drain pipe...here's what you do:
Take a wrench, and start acting like you don't know which way to turn it, how it fits onto the pipe etc.... Start saying stuff like, "Honey, which way do I turn it to get the ring thingy off and Should I have turned off the water first?"
Next thing you know...he's fixing the sink!!!
*** But, it swings both ways. Somehow, my husband doesn't know where we keep the cleaning supplies or how to fill up the ice trays.
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2007-07-23 09:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's is the most annoying thing ever.... not only do you look like a dork BUUTTTT the guy you are LYING to sees you as this weak person and THAT is the person he is attracted to....when you finally snag him and lose the weak, needy facade... and the real you comes out he will be blindsided and that's not what he wants. Always be who you are... your soul mate will like the real you... warts and all.
2007-07-23 09:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by nease174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you have a man with THAT low of self esteem, then there is a problem. Thats just silly and not someone you can truly respect or lean on when needed.
2007-07-23 09:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not... if a man needs someone to make him feel manly, then he must not be very manly.
2007-07-23 09:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by A_is_for_Apple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we have to pretend,I think we sometimes are needy and weak,to my opinion
2007-07-23 09:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah, the fact that they can have facial hair and deep voices should make them feel manly enough without my pities.
2007-07-23 09:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Gabbie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋