i had sex with two people around the same time. one guy was a fling and he might have pre-*** in me. and the other is my boyfriend who always cums in me. i am now pregnant who is most likely the father of my baby?
2007-07-23 08:55:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
While your at it you might want to get an AIDS test as well, seeing that protection is not in your vocabulary.
2007-07-23 08:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Luds 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Amazingly enough, your not the first person to have this problem. There are hundreds of millions of people out there who have cheated on their significant other. Doesn't anyone ever watch Jerry Springer anymore?! You cheated and you need to come clean with it if you haven't already done so. The most important thing right now isn't who the father is, its whether or not your happy with your pregnancy. Honestly sweetie, its a coin toss between the two men. Your one night stand might turn out to be the baby's biological father, but its up to your boyfriend whether he wants to be your kids daddy or not. Once the baby is born, get a paternity test (not on national TV), and look into contraceptives. For right now all you can do is be the best mother you can possibly be, and remember that your not the only woman in the world that is in your same exact situation. Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-07-23 16:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you think you were doing? believe it or not it depends on the sperm that was the fastest. You need to figure out when was the last time you had sex with both of them and do the math. At this point you need to deside what you want to do about telling them. This might be a good time to keep your mouth shut and just have an abortion. Although an abortion is not for me, it might be what you need to do, because you have completely destroyed your life if you tell your boyfriend you had sex with someone else, and your whole family and friends will forever know that you sleep around, this child will forever be a reminder that you did something stupid. You need to stop sleeping around and go back to school. Sometimes life is hard. And you have to make hard choices because you made silly choices that got you into this mess. I'm not trying to get you upset, but society is still to this day very proper when it comes to having multiple sex partners. You can kill your self. Have you ever heard of HIV. How old are you? Please go to your parents for help no matter how old you are, you need some guidence.
2007-07-23 16:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by NANCY J 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say your boyfriend is "most likely" the father because you could have got pregnant with his baby even before the fling with the other guy plus sperm is definelty "more likely" to get you pregnant than precum but seriously all because one guy is "more likely" means nothing! You need to get a dna test hon and if your boyfriend knows your pregnant you need to let him know it might not be his. Sweetie, I know this might be hard but you have to know whose it is and if you're under 18 your mom may be able to help with alot of things so you should tell her your pregnant if you haven't already.
Good Luck I hope the father truns out to be who you want it to be and I hope you have learn your lesson.
I am not trying to be rude but you might need to tell your gyno to test you for stds to especially if you didnt know this "fling" very well
Good Luck
God Bless
2007-07-23 21:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Saerah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, baby.
now do you think that was wise?
The only person that is truly going to suffer from your sluttiness is your baby.
I hope you learned your lesson. Why would you have unprotected sex with a fling anyway? Eeww. That is nasty.
The only thing you can do is wait. Be real with yourself, your boyfriend and since you are obligated to, that poor baby. tell your bf what is going on. Get the DNA test when you first have the baby and call it a day. Suck it up and be a woman. You were woman enough to open your legs to two men without protection so now it is time for you to be woman enough to face the music.
GROW UP.
2007-07-23 16:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by darcanjle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you opened yourself up for one didn't you....LOL
Well I will tell you this being honest from the begging is the best thing to do or just tell the fling he might be the dad don't tell the other dude and when the baby is born have fling guy get a test then if he is not the father your boyfriend wont know a thing.
What he don't know wont break his heart..
But if it is the other guys baby you have some explaining to do Lucy.!!!!!!!
2007-07-23 16:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by MYAB 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WoW! Well there's no doubt who you'd like the father to be, however just because your boyfriend completely ejaculated in you and the other guy didn't doesn't mean much. They both have equal chances of being the father. If your other boyfriend always cums in you and he's never gotten you pregnant before, maybe it's the other guy.
2007-07-23 16:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Vee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could be either, precum actually has more sperm in it. Talk to your doctor about doing a paternity test before the baby is born, It can be done. and if that is the case, see if you can use a hair sample. get a sample from the bf and bring it in. If you are trying to hide this and the hair sample wont work, see if you can track down the fling and ask him to take a test first hopefully the bf will be spared then.
2007-07-23 16:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by mjoy2685 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flip a coin! No way to possibly tell until you do dna testing. However, I've read a study that suggests that when women have "flings" that thier PH level seems to be more compatable for pregnancy then with thier own partners. There were lots of biological reasons for this... Not sure if it's true or not but it made sense when I read it!
Best Wishes!
2007-07-23 16:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by gracie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
could be either or. I'm in the same stich.
These people who are putting you down and calling you names don't know anything about you. Times have changed. But I sure as hell would not mention it to other guy unless you know FOR SURE who the father is.
Let your boyfriend know though. Be honest and what not with him. Because he'll be more than likely the one to stick around and help you out in the long run.
2007-07-23 16:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Colie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You won't know until you get the Paternity test results...
Don't you know what a condom is for? If not for your own health, how about for the health of your unborm children?
The STDs you probably have can cause all sorts of birth defects and even cancer in YOU.
Get to an OB and get yourself checked out. Come clean with your boyfriend. And if he's not supportive of the situation, consider adoption.
It sounds like you've got too much drama to bring a child into the middle of it all.
2007-07-23 16:04:53 · answer #11 · answered by Regina T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋