How would you dress if you were going on a blind date with a total stranger set up by you online?

Question

blue jean and top
sexy outfit
or what?
Where would you plan on going ?
how would you want the other person to be dressed?
would it matter to you what that person looks like?
what would be the signal as to know that person was the person you want to met? a flower,a book what?
In other words how would you set it up?
would you have an escape route?
None else knows about this date or about the plans but youtwo.

Answer 1

Blue jean shorts and top w/matching sandals.
Planned on meeting at the zoo.
If he had all his buttons buttoned, zipper zipped, and looked reasonably clean, I wouldn't care about his clothes.
No, it wouldn't matter how he looks.
I'd be carrying a Barbie doll in a drawstring bag to indicate it's me. (I collect Barbies and they're great conversation pieces)
My escape route would be to simply walk away, exit the zoo, and catch the bus to home. (That way he doesn't know my car or license plate number, and can't really follow me without a lot of difficulty.)
Yes, I have set it up but it hasn't come about yet. He keeps cancelling.

Answer 2

Been there & done that....

Met on eharmony.

Met at the mall.

Went for a few drinks and then to a movie and then went and had a few more drinks since it was late, we had both already ate, and we wanted to get to know each other some more.

I wore a summery kind of dress, sandals, and a brown overcoat thingie.

We knew each other because we had a meeting spot set and I called his cell.

If I wasn't happy, I would've just left making up some excuse to get myself out.

I already had an idea of what he looked like because he had pics on his profile but yes, looks would matter in order for me to transcend to anything more romantic wise.

I would definitely tell someone about the date just as a precaution.

My advice to you is be yourself. Whatever the plans are for the date should dictate what you are wearing, you don't want to be overdressed but you don't want to underdressed too. I think that a first date should be something where you can honestly get to talk and get to know the person and should also be in a public place for safety reasons. In addition, definitely tell someone about the date and do not allow them to pick you up either. You want to be safe before you allow someone to know where you live or drive you around if that makes sense. You should ask lots of questions about the other person but do not ask anything too personal unless given the ok to do so and if all else fails, make conversation about current events, tv, or anything general enough so that you can keep the communication going. Trust me, I was a nervous wreck before going to meet him but once I finally did, I was calm and relaxed and had an amazing time.

Good luck to you :)

Answer 3

I would just be me, clean & well kept, but nothin special. A little somethin' to eat, some music, maybe a little dancing, lots of conversation; & if all worked out well, maybe a little romance! I won't elevate my woman, I'll except her just as she is!!! Escape route? I suppose that if it came right down to it, that it would probably be a mutual boltage!

Answer 4

i wouldn't go on the date
what if he turns out to be some raper
or something

Answer 5

jeans & t-shirt.

Answer 6

make sure you are armed