And after graduating from the sixth grade we both went to different schools and we barely ever saw each other again and every time I'm around her its as if I'm invisible. So pretty much we were best friends and then were not? So how do I relive the friendship? I really dont want to lose such a great thing like that.And how can I start a conversation with her so I can revive the friendship?
P.S. : I'm like best friends with her bothers and I DO NOT LIKE HER MORE THAN A FRIEND. So I wont take her on a date.I just want to be friends.
2007-07-23 06:14:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her your feelings it could be that she is feeling the same way
2007-07-23 06:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by animal luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that you have to determine, is whether or not she wants to be friends back as well. If she really has forgotten about you, then you probably should let it go. But if she does want to be friends again, then there are a few things you could do. First of all, get an IM, and make her get one of you don't already have one. Converse constantly. Second, send her an email. If you can get a system going where you keep replying and replying, that'll strengthen the relationship. After that, try to arrange to meet personally again. Maybe it'll spark it back, maybe not.
2007-07-23 13:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas Maplewood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About this age is where we start to learn new things about ourselves. We change suddenly in a way that sometimes even the best of friends couldn't predict about each other. With girls and boys, its even more confusing because girls and boys can't be together without suggesting anything.
She may be avoiding you because she's just as confused about your friendship as you, maybe even more.
Try to approach her as a new friendship, because there will be things that have changed. Make a big friend-group activity you can invite her to. It always helps to have people around to get the fun going, because again--you haven't seen each other for a while and don't know what has changed, what is still safe to talk about with each other, and it gets too awkward.
2007-07-23 13:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U Guys Should Just Start Hanging Out More... Then Pretty Much Tell her that u wouldn't want to lose her as a friend!
2007-07-23 13:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend there is nothing greater than a friendship.Because wherever u go u need a friend who can answer your problems .You are right , if u are confidently stick to your thoughts then it is correct because by that u can get two friendships .BEST OF LUCK
2007-07-23 13:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by preet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem you might face is if she starts hanging with the in crowd.
Then she might be embarrassed to hang around you if you aren't "cool".
2007-07-23 13:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by cop350zx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel she might feel the same and ask why u do not hang out as much anymore and then go from there with what she says
2007-07-23 13:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by soccerlover214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you miss the way your friendship used to be and tell her you want that back.
2007-07-23 13:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by brokenmuffinz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried approaching her and talking to her? Start with something like, "Hi, remember me?"
Then pick things up from there..
2007-07-23 13:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over to her brothers house, hang out with them and if she's around, just say hey, how you doing? how your summer been. just somthing simple like that
2007-07-23 13:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋