2007-07-23 05:48:49 · 22 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one has said this, yet, although I fully expect it. My husband has not been to one since before we met. We have a great marriage and have a lot of fun together.
2007-07-23 07:14:36 · update #1
I have never had a desire to go to a strip club. To much $$$ and stress againts my wife. SO why would i want to go do something like that, when i can treat my wife to a dinner and buy her a nice gift and have a great sex with her
2007-07-23 06:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brian R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been in 3. There were mostly pretty scuzzy. Many of the men stared like friggin zombies at the girls. They all had asinine stupid loud obnoxious dee-jays demanding that the patrons applaud and give money to every girl on every single dance. (Guys put your hands together for Crystal - now show her some appreiation - come on get your hands out of your laps and open those wallets." Blecch.) It's almost humiliating. In some, the women are super-aggressive about you buying a lap dance - if you respectfully decline, they start calling you names -- drunken sailors don't swear like that.
All in all it can be a bit creepy. The super upscale ones are clean and nice and low key and most of us dream of our woman suggesting we go to one of those together.
2007-07-23 15:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by salacious_crumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the whole strip club thing when I was younger. I'm so over it. It just got boring after a while. I'd rather stay home and molest my GF then pay to watch some girl strip
2007-07-23 13:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Raphael_1012 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have gone on occasion, and I don't really like it. Don't get me wrong, I like naked women, but a strip club isn't one of my big fantasies.
If "me and the boys" are going out for a beer, that would be the last place I'd vote for, but if I'm out voted, Id still tag along.
2007-07-23 13:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by mjmayer188 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married since dec, but we have been together for over 7 year and he has never had the desire to go. Porn yes.
2007-07-24 09:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by dolphins4jcs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I am not in the least desired to go to a strip club....
2007-07-23 13:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by pres145j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend of 2 1/2 yrs has never liked strip clubs,(he is 38). In fact when his friends would go he would decline. He can't stand them.
2007-07-23 12:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cali Mom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am kind of embarrassed by them! I have no desire to go to one. The only time I have been was back in college and it was for a bachelor party. I have not been to one in over 15 years!
SO yes there are men that have no desire to go to them! ME
2007-07-23 12:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As much as I like to look, strip clubs are an embarrassment.
I know it's an act... a performance... a job... and it's not "real."
Now, if my wife ever wanted to put on a show, that's ok... because I know her, she knows me, and we're having fun together...
2007-07-23 13:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by aspicco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi ,i am married and have no desire to go to strip clubs ,although my marrage is not great i do not go to strip clubs
2007-07-23 14:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋