we broke up about half a year ago, but just now i am starting to put the pieces together.. we were together for 2 years, yet the entire relationship seemed like a progress. There was always a problem, always a fight, or he was breaking up w. me just so that he could "take me back"as his sick way of making me feel "special". He physically abused me a few times. He cheated on me multiple times but lied about it (once we broke up he bragged that he cheated on me 40 times) he is on antidepressants and aderol for god knows wat? often times i would go2his house&listen2him sob2me for hours about how sad he is. He is wreckless(just got a speeding ticket for going 140, just got a DUI for going 130, does coke, got a fake ID, drinks every day&every night, gets on anybody with 2 legs) when he broke up w/ me, he said "now that i have my meds*antidepressants* to make me happy, i dont need u anymore" & that was the end of it (he tried hooking up w/ me seconds after he brokeup w/ me when i was crying?
2007-07-23 05:44:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he brags about doing odd sexual things w/ girls.He completely ignored my presence&acted as if he hated me right after we brokeup.he had no sympathy about the breakup wat so ever.The only time we have talked since is when he told me my sisters b/f was cheating on her(which was a lie)&he also Imed me once he found i was going to prom with som1 he is somewhat friends w/, then he IMed me right b4 i left4college(acting like he didnt kno i was leaving, when he was 100% positive) he asked me who ive been hangin out w/&if i was dating the guy i went2prom w/&then lied2me about all the trouble he has gotten in2.When i told him months ago how much he has changed 4 the worse he says "i kno i have changed, i'\m such a hard-working, genuinely nice guy" at first i thought he was kidding, but no, he was dead serious? i have millions of stories about our relationship it was very mentally abusive, if u could give me more information on if he narcissist or not&other qualities of breakups with narcissts
2007-07-23 05:44:59 · update #1
Sweetie, count your blessings that you are free and clear of this relationship.
It does you no good to keep rehashing what happened and if he was narcissistic or not.
You deserve so much better than that. Take this relationship and learn what you can from it, like what you will and will not put up with from a guy in the future, then go on and live your life.
Good luck.
2007-07-23 05:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, run for the hills and don't ever look back. This guy has mental problems. It sounds to me like he needs a different mental diagnoses. Adderall is for ADHD ( my daughter used to take it.) He needs more help then you or he realizes. I do not know if narcissistic is the right word to describe this behavior, but defiantly not some one you should be with, so kudos for getting out of the relationship for good.
2007-07-23 05:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more bipolar to me. These are the classic symptoms of bipolar. This is a person that you need to have absolutely NO contact with what so ever!!!! It will only lead into trouble for you. I would ignore every message and phone call. If nothing else, tell him you are done with him and you do not want him to contact you for any reason. If it still does not help, get a restraining order.
2007-07-23 05:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER HIM!! You broke up six months ago, and you're still obsessing about what he did, how he treated you, why he's such a bad person, etc. Instead of trying to figure out what's wrong with him, you need to go to a counselor to figure out what's wrong with YOU that you would date a guy like this for TWO YEARS!
2007-07-23 06:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you with a guy like that for? You have just painted a picture of a person who has nothing but problems and is an absolute jerk. Why are you with such a person, now that you know all this about him?
2007-07-23 05:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nutbar would be a better adjective for this dud... You are wasting valuable time on trying to figure this out.
You need to do a cleansing and let this cra* go and get on with life.
If you spend your time in the past you will never live now or the future.
You can't help him,. he is sick, you are not a martyr, so get moving in the other direction...
he has mental problems and sickness, you do not have to understand him or try to feel better about your past relationship with him.
Step out of the box girl and get on with life...
this is a negative step back for you, so knock it off and move on....
Cry and scream, yell write your feelings on paper ,and then burn the papers and let go.
Alot of people have gone in this vicious circle. you are sane he isn't... end of story./.
get out with your life and your health...
2007-07-23 05:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over, why worry about it? Or are you actually thinking about getting back together with this guy? Move on, and don't bother with him anymore.
2007-07-23 05:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good lord, i couldnt even finish reading everything you wrote. DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA.....sure your not the one with a problem also? WHY would you even be attatched to a man like that???? MUST BE THE SEX! MOVE ON!
2007-07-23 06:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by lbrady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, HE IS YOUR EX. move on for Christ's sake
2007-07-23 05:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋