2007-07-23 04:05:17 · 41 answers · asked by Rajesh K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if you do want to have an abortion then you may have to do a surgical procedure. From what i know the medical abortion can only be carried out if you are 7weeks or less. Check with your local Planned Parenthood clinic. Good Luck! Don't let anyone choose what you should do its your body and your life.
2007-07-23 04:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
See a doctor you should have done this sooner, but you must think of keeping this baby, aborting a baby is like taking life, under the law of the land you may have a choice but think about it, in some places it may be considered murder and against the law.
The choice is your and your partner, it has to be a joint action on part of both people involved.
Give the baby up for adoption, see a plan parenthood clinic and a lawyer that specialise in adoption, open adoptions are possible now a days, well to do adoptive parents can provide expense and the other care during the pregnancy look in to it.
If you still think that adoption is the only choice then; Do not do this at home all by yourself you can bleed to death, should be done under supervision of a trained person, just in case some thing goes wrong, preferably at a clinic or an hospital.
Check out all the possibilities, you have to choose so, make a sound good informed, informed choice. Free clinic are there and there is no harm or shame in using their service.
Most people regret aborting a baby latter so think about it.
2007-07-23 04:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't terminate - maybe you are just in shock. I had a 3 month old when I found out I was pregnant again. I was not happy at all about the pregnancy. I refused to acknowledge the pregnacy for a long time - and didn't tell anyone until I couldn't hide it anyore. Now that my daughter is born, I can't imagine my life without her. Just give it time and re-consider. If things are still bad after the birth - there are so many people looking for babies to adopt. Give your un-born baby a chance.
2007-07-23 04:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lady 205 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are considering termination due to the age difference or what. I have three children aged 3 1/2, 2yrs and 4mths. My eldest was 10mths when I conceived #2 and my 2nd was 11mths when I conceived #3. Although it can be tough having children close there are lots of good things that come with that. I am not going to be one to say you can or can't abort because I believe that is yours and your partners decision but I do think you should really sit down together and list all the pros and cons to having this baby.
Good luck
2007-07-23 04:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by trida 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is quite unfortunate that you are able to conceive so freely that you feel you can just dispose of a CHILD because it is not convenient for you. Look at your 11 month old daughter-you were pregnant with her at one time. Killing your unborn child is no different than killing your 11 month old-born or not, it is still YOUR child. Can you imagine telling your daughter one day, that you killed her brother or sister?
I am sorry that you find yourself facing an (obviously) unplanned pregnancy. However, I would urge you to do the responsible thing and continue the pregnancy. If you find yourself unable to raise another child, adoption is an option. Abortion should NEVER be. You were obviously having intercourse, you knew there was a chance of conception-the innocent life you are carrying should not suffer because of your irresponsibility.
If you are going to do this heinous act, you need to consult a physician. By not doing so you could risk your chances of being able to conceive in the future (which would not be a bad thing, considering you are considering ending a life willfully because it is not convenient for you), or possibly kill yourself.
PLEASE consider all options, of which abortion should be the very last.
2007-07-23 04:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by StayAtHomeMomOnTheGo 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I have been trying to conceive unsuccessfully for over 10 years now and it kills me to know that there are people out there who would rather terminate the pregnancy than carry it full term and give it up for adoption - I can understand if u cant take care of another child but why cant you atleast carry it and give it to someone who needs a child? It is selfish and I think all types of abortion should be illegal.
2007-07-26 22:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by birdyblondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have think about termination is not good. However the decision about to take views of different person is good. and i suggest you not take any wrong decision and an unborn child if you have lost that you would never be excused yourself in your future life. Take it easy and get born the sweet child and take care of the first daughter and the second which may son or daughter as God like.
God bless you as per your requirements.
So take care. Don't think negative
2007-07-26 18:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by loving_human 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have some fantastic response with most people saying not to terminate. Right, this is definitely not a forum to put up such a question, for surely you will be influenced by people's views. Its best to be decided by you, your husband, and the doc surely has ways to get you out of this. It is a decision which if taken wrong you will repent either which ways for years and years.. Cheers.
2007-07-23 04:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let these people pass judgement on you and make you feel bad. Not before they've walked in your shoes. Personally, I'm against abortion. But I also believe that it is YOUR choice to do whatever you want. I have no idea what your life is like and whatever you may be going through. Just remember, YOU have to live with your actions regardless of what you decide.
The only thing I would pass judgement on is the fact that you would ask this question here. This is a private matter between you, your husband/boyfriend/father of the fetus and your physician.
Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
2007-07-23 04:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Lucifer♥ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why would you chose to terminate. For those of us ttc, just one prego would be great. Be thankful that you are able to have children. Maybe you should have been more careful. But to terminate just because your children will be close in age is not the answer.
2007-07-23 04:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are not ready for this baby and you are comfortable with ur decision than do it. Do not let anyone make you feel that ur decision is wrong its your life and you have to live it not them. I know how hard it would be to have a baby right now I have a 10 month old and honestly i would be thinking the same way you are. Do what is best for you and good luck.
2007-07-23 04:17:30 · answer #11 · answered by Ashlovable 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋