Well, this question will probably sound quite stupid, but I feel that I just can't find a path in my life which would be considered totally mine, where I could be an absolute craftsman, so to speak, knowing my niche and developing it the way I feel is good for me. It seems that no matter what field or area I would choose, there are always some people who have been there and can do it better than I, and I just can't compete with them. It is so frustrating! I feel like no matter where I go, there will always be somebody who will tell me that this new thing that I am trying is not new at all. Like, there have already been some people who had been here and they know better, and there is no point for me to compete with them by going into the same sphere - I just can't beat them and they will always be better than me in that. (By the way, I am not talking about just a business here. I am talking about just anything in life). It is so frustrating! What should I do? Please help me!
2007-07-23 03:07:22 · 4 answers · asked by dolempap 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There may always be someone better than you. Don't try to compete. Be urself. Each person has his strengths and weakness. Be urself. Trust in God, pray, and be urself. God has a plan/path for everyone. Each thing you have tried and failed at will help you and motivate you at the next thing you try.
2007-07-30 07:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by ajay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it, and come to terms with it.
Life is not what happens to us, but how we rise above it.
We all have talents, and of course limitations.
The key is to learn to accept your personal best; there is always going to be some one that is better than we are at something or another, as we are in skills other people may lack.
Focusing on our shortcomings is a limitation that we place upon ourselves, and that is more debilitating than any lack of skill, because it sets the tone for how we approach any future dealings with people, or projects.
2007-07-23 10:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by busymom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not seeing this right. You take the path you want and own it. You don't have to forge a new trail. And it is good if there is competition. That is what drives us to do better. Why not do what you want and not worry about who may be doing it better. You are really holding yourself back.
2007-07-28 12:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Determine who is the leader, Follow the leader. stream along Observe the leader, what he does, when he does it why he does, how he does etc. Gain experience, lots of them to build confidence. Then when the time is right, rip from your saddle, pump the pedals and do the dance...strike while iron is hot
2007-07-30 13:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋