2007-07-22 19:15:02 · 8 answers · asked by chersy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm so sorry sweety that you think he is having an affair. I am really sorry and my heart goes out to you really. Call 611 on his cell phone and say you lost your password and you need to reset it. Say it's him when you call. Then when he can't check his messages because you changed it act like you have no idea why it probably is the phone company's mess up.
2007-07-22 19:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
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2007-07-23 02:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boy that's a good one. I am currently going through the same thing. What I used to do was check the house phone as he would frequently use the house phone to check his voicemail and enter his password right after his cell phone number right after the # sign. You'll find it. Check the history on the phone as well, missed calls, received calls, made calls and his text messages going in and out. You don't need a password to do that. Hope this helps!!
2007-07-23 06:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by blittyboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this wrong, I'm not trying to offend you. That sounds really snoopy and untrustworthy. If you think he might be ask him. Part of marriage is supposed to be trust not having to sneak around to find out. Or try tracking his activities until you have more proof or feel that he hasn't been. Like monitor when he comes home from work, how often he stays later but no one else you know he works with does, just make observations and then ask him. If he loves you I bet he will tell you because he is afraid you will find out. I don't know ... I just wouldn't go around trying to snoop in his voicemails and personal accounts without making a solid effort to appropriately find out. It's not respectful, nor is cheating but give him the respect of confronting him if it's not against your safety. If it is dangerous for you to ask him it is probably just as dangerous to poke and prod and get caught ... I don't know your marriage so I can't say but that's my advice. Hope you get it figured out.
2007-07-23 02:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by ~Les~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he tells you, or you find he wrote it down somewhere, or if you get a court order against the phone company you won't be able to get his password. My wife and I have a lot of trust, but if she asked me for my password, I'll tell her. She never remembers it anyway! lol!
2007-07-23 02:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by dweebken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's got a password you don't know, he's either too secretive for a healthy or relationship, or he's got something to hide.
2007-07-23 02:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Murrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever look on the.i.d. caller . i think i would have a different i.d. caller away fom him hiddenand look at the names on it my opion/
2007-07-23 03:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, ask him.
2007-07-23 02:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋