Guys and Sex?

Question

Let's be real. I want to know if you lie to your spouse and say your a virgin and if you lie about how many women you've really been with?

Are all men ready to have sex at any given moment and are you all pretty nasty dogs but tell the woman of your dreams your a virgin to make her think your better than you really are?

Honestly?

Answer 1

My husband didn't. We talked about our past before we ever had sex. It wasn't an issue when we got married. Neither of us were virgins and 20 years later it still doesn't matter.

Answer 2

What man would claim to be a virgin? That's like admitting that you don't know what the hell you're doing.

I did not lie about how many women I was with before I met her, nor does she care. She benefits directly from my experience, after all. Also, she wan't a virgin either. Far from it.

Are men ready all the time? Pretty much.

Answer 3

Sounds like a little confusion here. Yes, guys like sex, and yes, we like it almost all of the time. As for telling girls we're virgins, I don't know about that. My thought is "why bother?" I don't believe this stuff about virginity being something special. I assume any woman I meet has known at least one man before me...maybe many men. I assume she makes the same assumption about me and other women. If she doesn't make that assumption then I believe she is naive. As for me, I'm really not interested in a woman with no experience with men.

Answer 4

I think most guys are honest when it comes to their virginity with girls. Sure, some may try and up the numbers on how many girls they have slept with, but they only do that to try and impress girls to let them know they are experienced. Or just to be cocky. But for thinking men are nasty dogs and are ready for sex at any given moment: yes and no. When a guy is sexually active, he doesn't crave it and constantly want it and desire it all the time, always ready to go to pleasuretown. But for a guy whos been sexually active, and then is cut off from it and no longer has sex on a weekly basis, then yes, he does crave it and desire it, and constantly want to engage in sexually activity, but can't. If men have it open to them from their spouse, they are fine and know they will eventually get it, but for those men who don't have it, they long and yearn for it constantly.

Answer 5

No I do not tell a girl I am a virgin. I mean if she does not care enough about me to stay with me because of that then she never really loved me to begin with. I know some guys that do make themselves out to be better than they are however. I mean some guys will say anything to get with a girl. I don't, I do not see the need to. I mean I want a girl that will love me, and if I lie to her about who I am, then she can't fall in love with me. If they don't like me for who I am then to hell with them, why wast my time.

Answer 6

Nope, I have always been completely honest about my past with my spouse, and she was with me. Not exactly PROUD of my past but that's exactly what it is.. in the past, and neither of us dwell on our pasts before we met. Life is full of choices and you don't always make the right choices, but such is life :)

As for us being ready to have sex at any given moment, I think that is a myth that is blown out of proportion by society. Men are seen as dogs that just need to hump everything that crosses their path, to 'keep the specis alive, and spread their seed' when in reality, this is far from the case.

At younger ages, teens to maybe mid or late 20s, guys in general want to have sex a lot. I say in general because not ALL guys are that way. Many mature early and are much more reserved about banging anything that crosses their path.

I think too, that guys tend to be more difficult than girls in getting aroused sometimes. Women you just have to touch them in the right spot, where as guys need more than just touch. Oh sure, if you reach down there and start stroking it'll get the guy hard, but to really get a guy going you need to involve more senses.

In other words, ladies, if you usually just kind of lay there and don't do much you're only getting to his sense of touch. Try this out sometime and I bet you you'd be surprised at the difference:

Do it once just lying there and not really doing much but letting him do his thing. Now the next time, take the time to use your hands on yer guy's body, like a sensual massage (touch). When you reach down, whisper something naughty in his ear (sound).. how naughty is up to you, some guys actually like to hear you speak really vulgar. Make sure you're doing most of the job, and in a position that he can watch the expressions on your face (sight).
Keep as many of his senses stimulated as you can and it'll be like a whole new experience for both of you.

Answer 7

Honesty is HUGE in any relationship, especially in a marriage. I think that any real man shouldn't lie about his sex life. If you lie about anything it will eventually come back to bite you later.
My ex-wife had lied to me about her previous sexual experiences and that was the beginning of the end for us.
It isn't just men, but I feel that it is those that are not happy or secure with who they really are.

Answer 8

I don't think a guy can pretend to be a virgin. There are some pretty sure ways of telling he's not.

But, I think guys probably lie about the number.

Answer 9

In 1955, 25% of women and 50% of men had cheated..
In 2005, 75% of women and 50% of men had cheated..
Feminism & Birth Control pills released the true women
in the Western world..

Answer 10

i never been with a young naive young girl that would even ask such a question or be concerned about it. But i will say that yes most guys are ready at any given moment.