ok i have this really good friend thats a guy and whenever i go to his house he starts tickling me and he says that im his wife lol and i tell him that he's my husband and sometimes i hug him and touch his hair,and he always trys to kiss me but i only let him kiss me on my cheek but i tell him i only like him as a friend (because i like girls) ...am i leading him on.?..and sometimes he says that he loves me but that he hates loving me because i dont love him back....
2007-07-22 18:30:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, you're leading him on. Stop now, this has happened to me. I felt so bad for leading him on, I became intimate with him( no, it's not enjoyable). We use to say the same thing, with the you're my wife and you're my husband thing. He got me pregnant and now we're married. Stick to chicks. Tell him how serious you are about liking girls and stop flirting with him; otherwise your guilt will eat you alive and you'll wind up doing something you never thought you would do. If he says he loves you, then you already in deep doo doo. You asked the question because you know you feel the guilt and the "what-if" kicking in, girl stop.
2007-07-23 07:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by yeah_ok 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 03:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh this story sound familiar.
Yes you are leading him on. you should stop saying that he is your husband. he going to think that he can get with you. put some more space between you two or you will end up hurting his feelings in the end. plus he is your friend you really don't want to hurt his feelings. it is like the same as lying. does he know that you like girls and not boys. if not maybe you should try and tell him. but i can see why he is in love with you. you are gorgeous.
2007-07-22 18:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by qaz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As much as I'd like to say no for your friends sake, yes, you are. In his mind he's thinking that he has a chance with you and has probably developed an emotional attachment. The longer it goes on the stronger it grows. If you find yourself not into him it would save a deal of trouble if you told him that you aren't interested in him. If you have to, stop fooling around with him in such a sexual manner.
2007-07-22 18:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, does he know you like girls. If not, then you probably are leading him on. Tell him that you like girls. This may change everything for him.
If he knows you like girls, he has hope that you will revert back to liking guys.
If he knows you like girls, then you have been honest with him. Thus, you are not leading him on. And by all means if you both of you enjoy this kind of play fun, then have a good time.
2007-07-22 18:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by laurinacouchon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of feelings being given by both, but you better make sure he understands where you stand in your life about real love, or there could be some very hurt feelings in the not too distant future.
2007-07-22 22:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first it may have been simple flirting for the two of you, but he seems to have taken it to another level. I would say stop being so intimate with this man. You may not be intentionally leading him on, but he is taking your actions much further then you think.
2007-07-22 20:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Forgotten Junk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like he likes you, unless he just is really playful...
but since you told him that you do like girls (im guessing anyway), he should get it that you'd never be attracted to him. mention a girl that you like or something, hopefully he'll get the picture. because i think you might be giving him mixed signals by playfully touching him and stuff...but i really just think he's into you and wishes you were into him. dont worry too much about it. good luck :)
2007-07-22 18:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not leading him on, cuz you told him the truth. But physical contact and caring for someone.. can make it really rough to cut out and stop loving you.
2007-07-22 18:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are leading him on. Unrequited love is hard enough when you can't have the one you want, but when you get to affection from them or for them, and know that that's IT...It's the worst thing ever!!
2007-07-22 18:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by ©Diva© 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋