i never really ever did my chores, i left them for 2 wks then my mom would just do them. but now shes telling me to do them that shes tired of doing them since they are mine. but i DIDNT sign up to do those stupid things so they shouldnt be mine. i told her she is perfectly capable of doing the dishes a couple times but now she dosnt go do them after i say that. wat should i do now???
2007-07-22
16:18:46
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i will not do the dishes my hands will get wet and touch gross dishes that i dont even use.
2007-07-22
16:26:47 ·
update #1
oh damn, ya lorie i am all real. idc wat u think but this is me........
2007-07-22
16:34:43 ·
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EmaWeeE, you are going into grade nine and with most people age also brings with it some growth as a person.Even spoiled girls need to learn basic life skills on the off chance their priveleged lifestyles should change.No one, not even spoiled girls, can predict what the future may hold.I think you should do some chores around the house.In my opinion children should learn that success in life requires effort Success is not just waiting there to be handed to you.I'm afraid that you will be disappointed in life many times because most people are unwilling to put more into your happiness than you are.If you don't feel you are worth the effort why should others.A parent is supposed to be setting parameters for you and guiding you.You as the child( and a minor child is what you are) should be listening to your parents.Realistically ,I don't expect you to really appreciate what I am saying but I hope you will at least read what I've said and give it some thought.Most parents love their children and want the best for them and ask for very little in return. I can see what you get out of this but what about your mom.She didn't sign up for the attitude but she still loves you.Take care.
2007-07-23 04:00:44
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answered by gussie 7
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Oh GROW UP.
She's trying to teach you, that you just don't get a free ride in life.
Hun, your going to have to do things you hate.
And, i'd do the same thing your mother is, if i was her.
I'm probably not much older than you.
You tell her, she is perfectly capable of doing dishes, WELL SO ARE YOU.
Also, i'm 15 and i've been doing chores since i was 9.
Your mother brought you into this world, she can take you out of it too.
Stop being such a spoiled little brat, and earn your keep around the house.
2007-07-23 04:18:27
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answered by Anonymous
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i hate spoiled teens like you! I am 15 years old and i practically do everything in the house cooking cleaning ETC i have been doing chores since i was 7 and it's taught me responsibility . My mom has diabetes and really bad knees so i make sure she doesn't have to much sugar or to many carbohydrates. I help my mom with what ever she needs I do not feel like a slave to my mom she brought me into this world and took care of me.you should step up to the plate and be adult about it. you are in for a rude awakening if you think when you get older everyone will do stuff for you because it doesn't work like that sorry!!!!
2007-07-22 23:48:45
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answered by sexy_cowgirl3737 2
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You eat, sleep, shower and you get free room and board. The least you can do is chores. I know chores arent fun, but its a part of your daily life. Wear rubber gloves when you do the dishes you diva. Your mother is not your maid. Shes not the only one that lives in that house.
DO THE DAMN CHORES!!!! Its not going to kill you.
2007-07-23 12:14:00
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answered by Demi 7
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You should do chores and help around the house with out her having to ask you.
If you don't help out you should not receive any allowance, nor should your Mom buy you anything but the essentials. This means no going to movies, computer or video games. Only the clothes you need...not the ones you want.
If you act like a spoiled child...she should treat you like one.
Oh...are you the same girl that asked about your cell phone bill? You sound too obnoxious to be real.
2007-07-22 23:27:29
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answered by Lorie N 3
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wear rubber gloves and do the dishes...u said it urself..they are YOUR chores. if u really hate doing dishes (i dot blame u i hate them too!) ask if there is another chore she would be willing to have u do insted of dishes...u should do SOMETHING to help out around the house if dishes isnt ur thing then find something else that u can handle
2007-07-23 16:40:57
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answered by jennybean7985 5
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wow your a spoiled little brat! you live in the house you can help take care of it. i'm sure you help make messes and dirty dishes so you can clean them. you need to realize your perfectly capable of doing the dishes to! you think the whole world is just there to please you, get that out of your head. your spoiled rotton and you need a good kick in the a**! you dont realize how much your parents actually do for you and you take it all for granted. i'm 14 and i do all of the house work and everything, my parents work long hours all week, when they get home they're tired they shouldn't have to worry about the house or anything. we also live on a ranch so theres more work there that i have to help with, cleaning barns and moving cows. you dont know how fricken lucky you are that your just asked to do the dishes. you dont even know what work is. you need the sh*t kicked out of you.
2007-07-23 02:53:07
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answered by Small♥Town♥Girl 6
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Honey you will not last one minute in the outside world with that attitude. the reason parents get their kids to do chores is so they can learn the responisbilities of the house hold and if you cant do that then you better stay home forever.
2007-07-23 02:25:36
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answered by Louise 4
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Since you are so independent why don't you move out, say under a bridge, and live on your own. Oh your not old enough. Well its high time you grew up. Do your chores and thank god you have a parent who doesn't kick your butt out into the street.
2007-07-22 23:26:38
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answered by Anonymous
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do the chores. you are a member of the household and you have certain responsibilities. your mom needs help around the house not everything should be left for her to clean. maybe ask if you could get an allowance for doing extra chores. your moms right , just help out.like you said my mom wont do MY chores they are YOUR chores not your moms chores.
2007-07-22 23:24:04
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answered by Anonymous
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