My husband recently admitted to having sex with a prostitute 3 nights in a row while on a overseas trip. But he's never wanted sex from me 2 nights in a row,.. let alone 3... So she was more hot than I?
2007-07-22 16:13:17 · 35 answers · asked by Sad wife... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok,.. maybe I should have added,.. that we are currently trying to work the marriage through,.. so yes,.. I did question his actions,.. tested us for STD and HIV,... but I do sometimes wonder why about a whole lot of other things,...
2007-07-22 17:08:05 · update #1
He was able to do it because he was away from home and took advantage of his independence. If I was you I would be more worried about him cheating on you and get tested because he could have brought you a disease.
2007-07-22 16:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by J R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just different (I hope) and an adventure. Are you looking for a new husband. You know without knowing you how are we suppose to arrive at a certain conclusion. Now, I am saying this to be nasty, OK, but maybe there is something wrong with you. Maybe you also don't give him the same type of sex he can get with a prostitute. Seems like it is time for sit down face to face.
2007-07-22 16:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by SgtMoto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie don't be surprise why your husband had it 3 nights in a row, remember he pay for it so those girls that's doing it was doing all the tricks to turn him on. That is why they have a pet name called "prostitutes....just make sure that he did used protection or else the big STD will come up....
2007-07-22 16:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I understand why you are upset about the prostitute issue. But, I think that you need to worry about other things like what kind of disease can he now give you. I would advice you to make him get tested. Take precautions until you find out weather or not her got something. If it were me I would then look into either ending my marriage or going into therapy and finding out why he would do that and what I could do to make sure that it never happen again.
2007-07-22 16:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Crow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily, he doesn't have to deal with the routine of life like he does at home. She was new, no strings, hot (maybe, I have seen the girls overseas) and willing to do anything he wants his way. You need to talk to him as to why he doesn't want sex 2 nights in a row. I try to get it when ever I can. (three kids and a busy schedule sometimes makes it hard)
2007-07-22 16:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to answer your question with a question, but if your husband had sex with a prostitute three nights in a row, then why are you even thinking about having sex with him again? Have some respect for yourself and kick the piece of scum to the curb.
2007-07-22 16:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Odie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he might have some type of sexual problem. People don't like to admit it, most of all men, but there is a growing problem with people being addicted to sex, the dirtier nature, porn, prostitutes, etc.... you should be very worried that he was willing to pay for sex. If he could have gotten it for free, do you think he has done it before? why would he cheat in the first place....
2007-07-22 16:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by swoop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was probably more of a "can I get away with this" kind of thing. Do you know if he was doing drugs or anything? Some people, after doing drugs, will do things like that. sounds like you have a problem on your hands...but at least he told you about it. Don't think that this is your fault or that you are not pretty enough. I guess this is how you know whether or not the marriage will last
2007-07-22 16:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off I hope you already kicked his butt to the curb.But i wouldnt say you was not hot but more accessable and he knows that but being with another women is dangerious and to him exciting knowing hes doing something wrong.Thats how some men are,they never fiqure out that what they already have can be truly wonderfull and exciting,Sounds like you may be the hot one yourself due to the fact in my opion that you seem to like and would have enjoyed sex on a more regular basis and friend dont get me wrong their is nothing wrong with that.
2007-07-22 16:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by mr.mcscrofe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to leave his sorry cheating *** and get someone better than him! It's quite obvious he don't love you anymore if he did he wouldn't be cheating on you with a prostitute! That's as low as low can go screwing a prostitute she probably gave him an std and he'll give it to you if you stay with him.
2007-07-22 17:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by little lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋