Ladies, would yo go to a gentlemen's club with your husband/long term boyfriend?

Question

I'm Lora, & I'm gathering background info prior to conducting a scientific survey for my work on human pair bonding which is required for my next step in education. Examining various aspects of sexuality is a part of my work. This is a sensitive & mature topic, so please use appropriate, respectful, words. Your feedback is appreciated. I thank you in advance.

What would you like to do there if you went and what would you like him to do? Was a turn on for you, or for him? How far would you let things go for each of you? Would you do it again?

If you wouldn't go please explain why not in detail. Did you talk about it? Did that conversation affect your relationship?

If you've gone, how far did it go and did both you and he enjoy it? Did you tell anyone of your experience? Most importantly did it impact your relationship either positively or negatively?

Gents, feel free to answer also, remember I'm mostly focused on how it affected/affects your relationship.

Answer 1

my man is free to go where he wants and i am free to throw his stuff out in the yard if he does.
I think he is happy with me......... he dosnt ever know what he might come home too....( i still like to surprise him and he hurries home)lol

I dont go to chip and dales
and he dosnt go to gentlemens clubs

Answer 2

Yes, I'd go. I haven't done it before but would go. I don't have a problem with him going with his friends because he has something better to come back to and I am confident. As long as there is distance I don't have a problem with it. Touching is a no-no. There shouldn't be any contact except maybe a tip but no touching by either party. Otherwise, no problem with it. Since I've never been, no expectations other than just checking it out.

Answer 3

Yes I would, why not let him enjoy himself a little bit, I trust him 100% and i wouldnt mind going myself anyways. Ive gone with friends before to a strip club (im bi) and enjoyed myself. Craig and I plan on going together sometime soon too, and I wouldnt have a problem if he went by himself either, like I said, I trust him 100% so why not let him have some fun

Answer 4

some people, whether men or women people, won't be able to cope with the belief of a gentleman's club, that's widespread ordinarily as a strip club. for people who're open-minded and not puritanical at coronary heart, it particularly is exciting for the two females and men people to pass to. i've got taken women people to them and that i've got additionally dated dancers.

Answer 5

Nope. I also wouldn't date someone who went unaccompanied to strip clubs. I'm not especially prudish. But I find strip clubs demeaning to all involved. Money in exchange for nudity/sexual contact commodifies human sexuality and, essentially, commodofies humans. If I wanted to be treated like that, I'd work in WalMart.

Answer 6

I would love to go. Never went to a gentleman's club--only adults only stores with my husband and a couple male reviews by myself, but I imagine we would have enjoyed it immensely. I have no idea how far it would go--probably lap dance for him--but if it's fun, go for it. It would only make things better, I think.

Answer 7

we had a great time the other night celebrating 12 years of living together

Answer 8

I've never been asked to go but probably I would not want too. I would try my best to entice him to stay home by giving him ..his own private show in our bedroom.

Answer 9

Hell no, I'd never go. And if HEEE even wanted to (which I'm sure he would, but if he expressed wanting to infront of me), then he's a dead man. lol

Answer 10

...I don't have to go there for a d*nm thing,there's no point in it at all!!!
I can satisfy my man in every sense of the word...