first of all i just wanted to say hi. there are and might be a lot of questions needing answers out there and well i might have some for ya and might not. all i have to say is that life is to short to be sad and well unhappy. it's just time to care for me and me alone. any one who disagrees well can and people who agree can too. I've spent a lot of time in a box feeling trapped but I am out, scared, but still willing to change myself for the better and not for the worst because I am beautiful and a hard worker,intelligent and able to do anything I set my mind to. My life is important to me and I want to live it being as happy as possible with out any one dragging me down. I realized that my love will not change any one as much and as hard as I do it wont happen unless they want to, But Change doesn't have to be a bad thing and now that evrything is different I take responsiblity for my own actions. I still love the person who caused me so much pain but I am done being last one in line
2007-07-22 14:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by WhErE Do I BeGiN??? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
husband and i seperated it's been 5 days already. How hard can it get??
2007-07-22 14:02:40 · update #1
It only gets easier. The lonely may not go away for some time if ever. But the longer you are on your own and learn about yourself as an individual the stronger you will be.
2007-07-22 14:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you finally found the point when enough was enough. It may get hard but you are at the point you can handle it. I wish you the best and I wont be on here much this week because of a family vacation but if you email I will check in and email back asap. If you need someone to talk to. I am a girl and not trying to pick you up just thought maybe you could use a friend.
2007-07-22 14:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in what I call , "the eye BEFORE the storm" , soon things with the 2 of you will seem to get better, everything you needed before he will give, (if he wants you back). after 2 weeks if he is still having fun without you, well as hard as IT WILL BE, don't go back, you have to start your new life somewhere. If you do go back , maybe somewhere down the road, you'll be in the same boat you are now, so give him at least 6 months, to think about how good he had it with you.
after 6 months, if he is still having fun, well girl,...you were right you do deserves more than that, go live it up, life is short, your no ones slave!!
2007-07-22 14:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by butterflygirltats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can be hard when leaving someone that you at one time loved or for that matter still love. but if you were miserable or for that matter in fear for whatever reason you took the first step in a long journey and hopefully it was the beginning of a life long happiness
2007-07-22 14:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by brian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, with your frame of mind, it's only going to get better. The positive approach is always the best way to go. And when you are feeling down, just remember "things could always be worse".
Good luck to you on your new journey!
2007-07-22 14:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, hang in there. I have been without my love for almost 3 months. Some days are unbearable but you do get through it. My relationship with GOD is what has made this journey easier. Hang in there and don't ever give up. GOD will bless you, give it to him.
2007-07-22 14:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by TinyT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! pray, prayer opens the door for God to work in our lives....Jesus loves you
2007-07-22 14:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just the beginning and in the end ....you'll be glad you went through it.
2007-07-22 14:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋