2007-07-22 13:44:07 · 20 answers · asked by timothy k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tie a hundred dollar bill on your wanger.
2007-07-22 14:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking about sleeping? Do you snore? Move around a lot in your sleep? Hold on to her so she can't sleep? Some people are just more comfortable sleeping alone, and when they touch someone, they wake up. Maybe she wants a good night's sleep especially if she works or has kids to take care of.
2007-07-22 20:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds stupid, but maybe do the dishes, maybe the laundry, or any kind of house work, give her a chance to relax and show her that you want to help her out too!!!
The romance thing works too but most of the time at the end of the day they're soo warn out from doing everything around the house that sex is the last thing on their minds...
Hell try even talking to her about how HER day was....
2007-07-22 21:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What did you do? Try to fix that. Then help her with whatever she needs help with (i.e. the kids, house cleaning, laundry, etc.) If she's stressed out and busting her booty she's not going to want to exert more energy at the end of the day for sex. If you have kids: find a sitter (that you know she will trust), tell her to get ready and take her somewhere nice or cook her a nice meal at home (and clean up after yourself). If that doesn't work, talking about it might help.
2007-07-22 20:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by mommyof2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For women, sex is processed differently than a man. My ex would constantly paw or grab at me. He never gave me compliments and was a total slob at home. With 4 children to feed , pick up after, and also work outside the home, I was exhausted and he gave me no help. By the time it came for me to go to bed, all I wanted was to sleep. The last thing I needed was him AGAIN pawing and demanding something from me. I divorced him.
My 2nd husband is always telling me he loves me. He compliments me often on my cooking, my looks, the things I do for him. He does not constantly demand from me. He treats me so well and shows his love for me by helping me with day to day things. I love our physical relationship because he is not demanding and respects my feelings, etc.
Maybe this will help you. Good luck.
2007-07-22 21:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like romance. They like a soft touch. They want their husbands to focus on them rather than on themselves. A lot of it is in the preparation. Put some thought into the planning of the evening. Dinner..maybe make it yourself? Or have it delivered to your house. Maybe chocolate covered strawberries and champaigne? Candles. Massage her back? She should be more receptive to romance if you do those things.
2007-07-22 20:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Pam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on her reasons why she won't. When a woman withholds sex or is disinterested in it. When in the past she has been the contrary. There has to be a good reason for her not wanting to. It could be physical, she is ill. Or resentment. Without knowing the reasons it would be guessing as to how you can get her to want to.
2007-07-22 20:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start expressing yourself---in longer-than one sentence thoughts. Give her some information and emotions to work with.
Many factors have to be right before women are interested in sex---it's your job to "fix" all the material surroundings of her life/apartment/house, whereever you live. It's your job to make her feel secure---do this by being dependable, on time always, aware of what's going on, emotionally alert, and concerned about possessions, hers and yours. Be ULTRA-alert when she talks to you---ask questions, get feedback.
Be polite to her (and all women), especially in the way you talk.
She is looking for all these "markers" in your speech and behavior---if you give her none of them, she has no incentive to be intimate.
2007-07-22 20:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have done something horrible for her not to want to sleep with you.
Whatever it is you did, you need to fix and so some serious kissing up to her...... And learn to treat her with respect!!!!! Sex does not make up a relationship!
2007-07-22 20:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by LyndasCa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, never schedule sex, when you do have great sex, don't think your going to get it the same the next night,..your wife is not a porn star,...(well most are not), play like it's her 1st. time, every time. meet her some where on a date.
2007-07-22 21:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by butterflygirltats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋