do you talk, or moan or anything? my husband thinks that only women should make noise, because thats how it is in porns. but how quite he is is such a turnoff because being quiet to me translates into it doesnt feel good! i have told him that the sex would be crazy if he got dirty with me ( because i would be so turned on) and still he is quiet.
2007-07-22 13:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when i ask him about it, he assures me that everything feels great. he calls me his pornstar... i just dont get it
2007-07-22 13:39:59 · update #1
i am his wife, not a blowup doll, thank you!
2007-07-22 13:42:43 · update #2
babygirl, you need to train your man. i don't say that lightly, i'm sure you know how important it is for couples to articulate and understand each other's needs and desires. your man seems to be getting majority of his training from porn. most young men do. your job is to train him to recognize your needs and respond appropriately because I suspect he probably treats you like one of the actors in his collection.
try role playing. get him all worked up, all hot and bothered and then MAKE him talk you through the session. Have him tell you what he wants you to do and then how it makes him feel. The first few times you try this, don't allow penetration. That's going to be his reward after he starts learning the rules.
This may sound crazy corny but ultimately it boils down to you being his play thing or his partner.
2007-07-22 13:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ced 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 07:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lucio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men I have been with make noise. For a few of them it took time but eventually they came out of their shell. Some men are afraid of a noise they might make so they try and keep quiet although the noises are just ready to pop out. If you really want to get him to make noises your best bet is to change things around a bit but not too fast. Being dirty with you if the guy has never done that before might be fast for him. Try concentrating on only him for 15-20 minutes on what you know he loves. If you do that a few times you are sure to get something out of him. Talking doesn't always help when it comes to guys. You need to show them first.
2007-07-22 13:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by bakonkers 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I guess you haven't found the volume controll keep looking..That's like watching a movie with the mute on.All action no sound?May be get him away from the Blk & White 8 mil move from the 60s an look at the crazy 1s out today.If that at what you like.
2007-07-22 13:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman is loud, I'll join in. If not, I'll keep the volume down. If you're screamin' "F-me!, F-me!", then you better believe I'm makin' noise.
2007-07-22 13:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by pfenigma 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you'd like him to say. It sounds like he's a hot lover, just the quiet type. We could share some lines, but not here!
EM me if interested
2007-07-22 14:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by Julius4U 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i make noise, but it cleared up with a couple of shots of wd-40
2007-07-22 13:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by trollin o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess a good man feels that the woman is the priority. We are happy when you are happy.
2007-07-22 13:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by dante 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sex without noise would be boring.This is one of the sure fire ways to know if your partner is having a good time.Usually the more noise a person makes the better the sex is.
2007-07-22 13:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
depends on the person. I do make noise!
2007-07-22 13:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by abetdgreyt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋