If you had it to do all over again, would you still marry your spouse? Please give an explanation to support your response.........
2007-07-22 13:31:10 · 23 answers · asked by Raindrop 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh my yes... to my second husband that is.... I have someone who I can trust with my life, my heart and my soul. Without sounding silly, I love calling his phone just to hear his voice on the answer machine..... even after 7 years.
I was married 31years the first time. I only regret not leaving sooner, but I don't regret having my two sons. They were the best thing to come out of the marriage
2007-07-22 13:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I would not. I mean if I couldnt have my kids unless Imarried him, then I would. We have been married for 14 yrs. Hes a good guy, he works two jobs so I can be a sahm. BUT..we are just two dift people, so completely opposite in so many important aspects, from how to raise the kids, discipline, money, all the impt things. I guess we should of discussed it more before marriage. We live like roommates. There is no drinking or drugs or cheating invovled. We are just two dift people who want two dift things in life. I will say, if I wasnt married, i would NEVER be married again. I am just too selfish to be married.
2007-07-22 20:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In a heartbeat.
We met in high school and fell in love. We got married at 18 & have been together for over 25 yrs now. I feel like we grew up together and have found ways to make life fun, magical, and exciting. It wasn't easy and we had people all around us who had divorced, were cheating, and were plain unhappy.
If I did it again and knew what I know now, I would definitely do things differently (less anxious, worried - more confident and adventurous) but it would be mostly about me and how I'd be different. I know he'd say the same -- i.e. he'd change things about himself but NOT about me.
Some things I'd do exactly the same - have my kids exactly when I had them and raise them exactly how I did.
2007-07-22 22:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Geraldine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married twice. The first No, because I was young and really didn't know how to work on a relationship. The second Yes, because I'm older, 34yrs, and I know now that it takes a lot of work to make a marriage last. My husband is the best-even though he has problems, of course we all do. But, I would marry him over and over and over again.
2007-07-22 20:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ericka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because it hasn't worked out the way I had hoped. I try to make the best of it. And that is not easy. We have different views on very important things. It wasn't always so. In the past we had problems. But now it seems there are more problems than anything else. And it's been like that for more than 2 straight years.
2007-07-22 20:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i would.almost 43 years.we have both changed.marriage is not the same as when we married.kids gone but raising 11 year grand daughter.too old to plan on the future.we are probably have been in a rut for years but no desire to move on to other people.the world has changed too much to ever think of another person,with aids etc out there.we will stay lonely i guess.people think we have a perfect marriage.if they knew they would be surprised.one time to be married is enough.
2007-07-22 21:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... I should have never done it in the first place. I went into the relationship knowing that it was a complete failure since the first couple weeks we started dating. He didnt treat me right and did a lot of things to me that nobody should go through, but I stayed with him for 2yrs and married him, because he made me believe that nobody would ever Love me and that all guys wanted me for was sex and that I would never find a good relationship, that he was the only one who would ever put up with me. Because of that I was scared to leave so I kept making myself believe that he would stop doing to me what he always did, but it never happened. Im two weeks into our marriage and wish that I woulda had the strenght to leave him earlier in our relationship, I wish I would have never let it get to this point.
2007-07-22 21:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by greenleaf805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without question.
While I will admit to a certain element of "luck" when we chose each other, I'd marry my wife again in a heartbeat.
She's not only sexy and funny, but her logic is nearly flawless, and her bookkeeping IS flawless.
She's a gourmet level cook and we have many common interests.
She's everything I could want in a partner.
2007-07-22 20:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would, we met when we were really young, and have made many mistakes. The only thing that I appreciate the most is that now we are best friends and he supports everything that I do.
2007-07-22 21:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by dreamyfairy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my 1st husband yes cause I have two wonderful kids buy him. My 2nd yes I learned alot about life. My 3rd definatly I have finally found all I could ever want and more he is the one I have dreamed of all my life and the love he shows me is worth any H*ll I lived through in the past.
2007-07-22 20:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋