Is it really true that when a couple have a child, the guy loses interest in sex? I need some true opinion from the expert to why this is true. Thank you!!
2007-07-22 13:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Fast Fingers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't believe that is true....iknow that with me ienjoy sexmuch more now then when i was pregnant and even alitte bit more that when i wasen't pregos...i feel like we just got together and our relationship is brand new!!! SEX IS GREAT NOW!!! especially the 1st time u do it after u have the baby!
2007-07-22 13:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by leelei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, women do. Once a baby arrives most women feel extremely involved in every aspect of the new one's care. Breast feeding can be a tiring routine, and if the guy doesn't help out with diapers and cleaning, it can cause resentment.
Also many women get depressed after giving birth, and many still feel unattractive. Many guys experience some degree of jealousy of the infant - at first it was all about us, now it's about the kid. Some women don't return to an active sex life until a year or two after giving birth. This is a long time for a guy to wait.
2007-07-22 20:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex changes true when a child comes into the picture because 1. the parents are taking care of another life and it's a lot of responsibility. 2. a man will tend to look at his wife as a mother figure now instead of the sexual partner he knew before. 3. once you finally get that baby to sleep you usually just want to sleep yourself...sad but true.
2007-07-22 20:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by mamapoulette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true, but it's not just the guy! The woman is so fatigued from taking care of her responsibilites. Oftentimes she expects the man to pitch in with the chores and diapers when he gets home from a long day at work, so he is tired too. We all need to satisfy our biological instincts first (sleep and caring for our offspring) before we can take care of our wants (an orgasm). That and the guy gets tired of his wife saying "no, I'm too tired" so after awhile he just stops asking :)
2007-07-22 20:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they have to look after the child, so responsibility really falls onto the parents. Males tend to lose interest in sex after they have had sex.....and then they sort of re-charge and well yeah.
2007-07-25 23:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Xiao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i found its the ladies who lose intrest.although they dont come out and say it i think that some women,not all feel that once they have a child with a guy they got him and they have control,almost like if you want some more of the good stuff youll do as your told,id dont know if other guys have had this expeirence but i have
2007-07-22 21:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by gear_jammeer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not to sure i have to girls and after the second was born we just stoped having sex reg, which was a real dissapointment as i
want 1 more to try for a boy but alot of the time its the other way around
2007-07-22 21:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its true b cuz my bro has 3 kids all girls
and he wants my mom to adopt them so that they can try to
have a boi which makes no sense
2007-07-22 20:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by superchic[k] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens due to the loss of having complete control of his environment from outside influences (aka..extra mental and physical stress)
2007-07-22 20:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by nighneev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋