For Asian guys only! Why dont asian guys check me out?

Question

Ok so heres the deal. I totaly get that asian guys like skinny girls and usually stick to their own culture. I live in Toronto and im 20 years old im 5'5 and look about 165lbs give or take. I dress pretty good and have a really nice face (not to tute my own horn) but im one the porky size since i quit smoking. I REALLY am ONLY attracted to asian guys like Japanese and Koreans mostly. But ive never been hit on by one, they barley look at me or anything and most of them I see in this city are with skinny asians. Do I not stand a chance? Is it because Im too fat? I even have pretty big breasts since were talking about apperances. Anyways should I just give up on the asian guys until I loose 40 lbs or what? T-T

Answer 1

I believe most Asian guys are just shy and would normally check out girls but pretend that they don't to save embarrassment. By the way I don't like skinny girls and I'm Asian. And majority of the time I prefer other ethnicity besides Asians and majority of my past relatioonship has been with caucasian. Losing 40 lbs. could have or not it all really depends on the preference of the man. I say you come first in your life and watch out for your own health besides for reasons for a guy. He should like you for who you are, personality is the one trait that would keep most guys be your side. So good luck.

Answer 2

I ain't full Asian but i am mixed with a lot of cultures including Asian,any how its not that they don't want to talk to u but most Asian are kind of shy and tend not to approach women who might have a hard time understanding there dialect they mostly stick to there own race to be on the safe side.only a few Asians, those are the ones who grew up around Americans will be more open and willing to approach u,if u feel so self conscious about your weight then go loose some pounds.and try to approach an Asian guy and see what happens.
Good luck

Answer 3

First of all you didn't specify if you are a man or a woman. Most Asian man are very cautious, and very shy specially the younger ones. Like to flirt but kind of immature to ask you for a date. Most Asian guys sometimes prefer to seek Asian women due to fact that most of us don't believe in devorce or playing games, and we prefer to stay with the same women at the very end. So the answer of your question is not giving up. Loosing weight also helps not only for the purpose of this, but also for the benefit of your own body and health. Follow what your hearts says and never gave up. Eventually, you will find what you are looking for. Good luck to you...

Answer 4

You're right. You should lose 40 lbs.
I'm 5'11" and weigh the same as you.
Big breasts on an overweight girl aren't sexy to me.
I like smaller breasts because they feel better than fat ones. I'm only attracted to slim sexy supermodel types but I've never dated one.

Find an older fat Korean dude to date. They might like a porky young white girl. Most of the guys I know who like chubby girls grew up with a fat mother. There aren't many fat asians. It's not part of their culture. That's why they're not interested in you.

You should probably shift your focus and date within your own race. You'll find that personality is more important than race.

Answer 5

Don't judge all asian guys as people who love exclusively skinny women.

And Tammy, when you're ready to come say that to an asians face, i'll be waiting.

Answer 6

its not because your bigger than asian girls its because they are shy and tend to stick to their culture
[asian girls are pettite]

Answer 7

if you lose 40lb's you'll be smokin hot, that's for sure.