I'm 26 year old CD, i've been dressing up as a girl since i was about 7 years old. It was always just for fun and as far as i know im straight. That is what is confusing me now... recently i've been going out to some bars, clubs or just anywhere with friends dressed up.. i can pull it off quite well where no one looks twice, and guys even come up and hit on me... but now for some reason all i want to do is be my female side and im not sure why... on top i have never been with a guy , thoughts, thats about it, but now a guy i met the other week won't leave me alone, he knows about me but wants to take me to a formal outting ( his sister's wedding) =/ kinda weirded me out al lil... but what should i do? for some reason i never wanted to act on anything, but with this guy i kinda want to explore... ugh so confused.. sorry if this didnt make much sense....
2007-07-22 10:51:37 · 12 answers · asked by Julie k 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
u can go with him if u want, and if u want to explore, then go on girl!!!
Just make sure u don't hurt anyone ok hunny?
I'm in a situation like yours, i'm a CD but i really wish to live as a girl...
I just need to get $500,000.00 lmfao XD
But i'm gonna tell u sumthing my dear, if u like that guy, just explore it, give it a chance and well, talk with him someday.
Just don't break his heart ok?
Take care and good luck!!
xoxoxoxo
2007-07-22 13:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not hurting anyone, try it out. At least you'll know if you like being with other men or not.
As for the wedding thing, unless his sister is wild and crazy and it's an unconventional wedding, don't do it. I think it would cause too much of a commotion, take away from her day, and be disrespectful.
2007-07-22 18:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you might try talking with a therapist to see if you are gender Dysphoric and if you are a female inside, you would still be straight if you date men.
2007-07-22 17:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by gone fishing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel things towards this guy I'd say explore! If it's not for you you can always change your mind and break up with him or whatever. :)
2007-07-22 17:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Britches 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were attracted to guys , youd probably know it by now . Some trannies prefer women . this may be your story too .
2007-07-22 18:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress up really nice suprise him wear a very beautiful dress that you would like but dont make it like dress upy
2007-07-22 17:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy. Life is a pursuit for happiness.
2007-07-22 18:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you're a man and if he still wants to go with you then do. Also, it sounds like you're transsexual.
2007-07-22 17:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Iacobus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to.
If it were me I'd do all types of crazy shlt but I am not you and you are not me.
gotta do what feels good to u..
2007-07-22 17:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
see a therapist
2007-07-22 17:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋