2007-07-22 10:31:38 · 18 answers · asked by *Veronica* 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I hear alot of stories like, he loved me. Now I regret it. I know some people who say that they say this because they can get anything they want or they get away with alot just by saying theese 3 little words.
They are powerful words and I feel that they can be used as weapons to many vulnerable people or just naive.
Would you or have you used them to get what you wanted? Be honest.........
2007-07-22 10:37:41 · update #1
I loved every one whom I said," I love you".However, as the time went, I realized that I should have known our compatibility and not a first sight attraction commonly known as puppy love, in order to say that I love you.
This is very common between the women and the men alike. We open our mouth and catch a squirrel like a dog does and then it does not know what to do with it because he cannot eat it. We also find out in our very young days that we do not know all there is to know about the other person before we fall in love with them and then we fall apart.
Some times we keep repeating the same mistakes again and again until we settle down with some one as a friend.
Love is real between any two people, however they have to iron out their conflicts, the so called the baggage they carry to the dating game.
If it is a slow cooking like a Kosher pot, it might work.
Therefore, I did mean when ever I said," I love you". It was very easy for me because I needed to be loved by some one.
Ramesh1938
2007-07-22 14:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by ramesh1938 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never said "I love you" to get what I wanted, however, I have said it because I felt obligated to say it. I am not inclined to use that special saying unless I truly and without a doubt mean it. I have used it a few times in my life, but that last time I used it was with my husband and he said it back to me and now we are separated. So I am afraid to use it again, so if someone says it they should mean it because it maybe the thin line between love and hate.
2007-07-22 17:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by DianeL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop, I don't think so. But sometimes I feel that my ex use to do it all the time but I guess I'll never know because he's not an honest person.
2007-07-22 17:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by chilanga26lasvegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because those 3 little words can do a lot of damage, they can destroy someone, they can make someones day, it can do a lot to you. I was told i love you lots of times but i never wanted to believe it, i dont know if they were saying it to get something out of it, or just to say it, or if they really meant it. no one should just say it to say it,, sure to your family of course you love them so it doesnt matter how many times you say it.
2007-07-23 12:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Elyse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope never have & never will. I wouldn't want any one to do that to me so why would I do it to some one else. It's not fair to toy with some one's emotions when all they're doing is loving you no matter what. Oh & also remember that karma is a b-i-t-c-h....
2007-07-22 21:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by ****Janina_Be_Rockin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying. "Men say I love you to get sex and women give in to men hoping to get love". I may wrote it wrong, but you get the meaning. Right?
2007-07-22 17:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, these words are words I would not even mutter under my breath, they cross my lips only because I truely mean it.
2007-07-26 01:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is a old trick us guys use to get into a girls pants.Yea its wrong but it really works.
2007-07-22 17:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and when people tell me dont say it if you dont mean it. If I tell you I love you then it is true
2007-07-22 17:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by lexy2444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never to get what I wanted, but I have said it to make someone feel wanted.
2007-07-22 17:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋