I'm sure you've heard the term "emotionally unavailable", but is it possible to be "completely unavailable"? Sometime I think my walls are built so high that I might be.
2007-07-22 07:05:17 · 14 answers · asked by Smoothie 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
'Sometimes', excuse my grammar.
2007-07-22 07:05:57 · update #1
Yes....I know exactely what you mean hon...because that is where I am right now....I just want to be left alone....and find ME....
Just know...we are both ok with this...hugssssssssss
2007-07-22 07:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean in a relationship? I feel the same way now but that's because I just got out of a long relationship (my boyfriend left me of 6 years for another girl) so I am not ready in any way to be with anyone else, therefore I guess I would be "completely unavailable". I have hurt so much that I too have put up walls and I don't think I will ever let them down, I would be afraid to.
2007-07-22 14:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes .. I used to be like that but I'm married now but I'm still unavailible in some ways ...
2007-07-22 14:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we think as ourselves as available and we are afraid of the word commitment. I was that person and sometimes cant believe I ever got married. You are just the type of person who doesn't want to be tied down, remembering all the reasons that your relationships go wrong.
Remember this one day the perfect girl will be there and you will know it.
I'm just sorry its not me :)jk
2007-07-22 19:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walls are put up to keep us safe from people or things that have hurt us in the past. I hope someday your heart begins to heal enough to start taking down the walls piece by piece.
2007-07-22 14:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Frances B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think it does exist
and i'm in this mode right now for years actually
both emotionally and physically unavailable..
2007-07-22 14:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is such thing as being "completely unavailable" to whether it's you don't want to be with anybody or you can't get anybody...
2007-07-22 14:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband told me he wouldnt get married again even if it was the Queen of England that was 14 yrs ago, And we are happily married. lol
2007-07-22 14:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, but when someone comes around those walls will crumble and you will find yourself in love perhaps.
2007-07-22 14:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by lilbitbeechy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awsome answer c.g. daniels
not to worry. one day someone will break the walls down brick by brick. time and patience for both
2007-07-23 04:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋