2007-07-22 06:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She wanted to be with anothere man i foun out when she told me to leave
2007-07-24 07:22:20 · update #1
She wanted to be with anothere man i found out when she told me to leave with my three children
2007-07-24 07:23:37 · update #2
???? not all woman. Must be the one your wife. Been with hubby 11 years still love him.....good luck
2007-07-22 06:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question to answer. It's not just women who do it though, I have been on the other end, where that's what the man said. I think there are a lot of reasons why that happens. Sometimes people get married before they really know who they are as their own person. They could start feeling like they missed out on something, and feel like being in a relationship is keeping them from experiencing it. Sometimes peoples feeling change, and there's just nothing you can do about it. Drugs could be the issue, I'm not sure for you, but that does happen, it can change a person. And you know what? Sometimes they don't even have an answer for you as to why their feelings have changed. And of course, you could always chalk it up to them being a total jerk, that's kind of how I feel for my situation! Hope that helps.
2007-07-22 06:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People lose their love for another when neither actively build the relationship.
A loving relationship takes maintenance; dinners, romance, time shared together, special moments that build love.
It is very easy to get into the day to day grind and start grinding on each other.
Your outlook on the relationship makes a huge difference, let her know that she is special to you, do things for her without the thought of what you will get in return. This exchange does need to be reciprocal though.
A loving relationship is hard work but the pay is great :-)
2007-07-22 06:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are brought up on all the "Happily ever after" hype and think marriage is about the new relationship buzz that got you to get married in the first place. When reality sets in and the real work of marriage begins, they think that they must not love you anymore.
Sadly, some never realize that love and marriage aren't about the new relationship buzz.
2007-07-22 06:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 26 years and I have never said this to my husband. You need to discus this with your wife. Maybe it was meant differently from the way that you took it. Mis-communication is common between men and women. If not you two may have some serious issues to work out. Either way you need to jump in there, TALK to your wife and find out exactly what is going on. Good luck.
2007-07-22 07:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by queen b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she means to tell you is that your relationship is falling apart. You seem to have a complete absence of communication. It is like speaking to each other in different languages. A very serious problem, indeed... Do get some professional help ( marriage counseling ). Remember: she does love you, but doesn't know how to make your relationship work. Get help and good luck to you both.
2007-07-22 09:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have been a relationship turned into a married as still living single kind of thing. My husband just left. He played video games all day. Then he says he doesn't know if he loves me. Of course not, he's been having an affair with video games for 2 years. Good luck...I'm in your boat too!!
2007-07-22 07:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably wasn't love in the first place. Sometimes people want to be in love so bad that they trick themselves into feeling it but since its not real it fades away. So its not all women I have been married for 2 years now and I love my husband more today then I did when we first got married.
2007-07-22 06:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't a feeling. It's a commitment, and it's hard work. Often it's easier for a person to just say "oh I fell out of love with you" as an excuse for not giving you and the relationship all they should give.
2007-07-22 07:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has something happened in the past 2 years that has changed the marriage, lack of communication, someone got hurt, and it was never resolved, lack of understanding? most of the time its because they feel emotionally cut off from u, and don't feel as if theres a reason to remain in the marriage. its usually about something they miss that they use to have when the marriage was new.
2007-07-22 11:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not stereotype women. I would say you probably fell in love with the wrong girl. With the right person, Love is suppose to last.
2007-07-22 06:47:06 · answer #11 · answered by always51787 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋