how do i get married without my mother?

Question

my mother died a couple of months ago

Answer 1

sometimes we have move on with our lives
your mom can be there is spirit

Answer 2

This can easily be seen as a tragedy for you and your family. There is no loss like that of losing a parent, and I'm deeply sorry for your loss. No words of logic or encouragement will make you enjoy your wedding day like you would have without your mom, but perhaps a matter of perspective could help with your pain. You could look at the loss of your mom, and your marriage, as two sides of the same coin. They both are some of the strongest celebrations of life we have, one at the end, and the other (ostensibly) at the beginning. Your loved ones are all in attendance for both ceremonies, and you are celebrating a loved one's passage into another state of being. She would be proud of you, and happy for you. Know that, and try to imagine she would desperately wish to be there.

Answer 3

My only idea would to honor her at the wedding too somehow. Have a framed photo of her up where you'll be standing or near the bridesmaids. It might sound weird, but at the reception, have an empty chair for where she would of sat. She will be with you in spirit on that day.

Answer 4

I feel bad about your loss.
Just a terse suggestion I would like to give - Whenever you feel weak and deep in emotions, just think that your mother would have been the happiest person to see you married and settled in life. So think of fulfilling her wishes and moving ahead in life in exactly the way she wanted

Answer 5

I am sorry to hear about your loss, you must be going through a difficult time. Do you have plans marry soon? As time goes on it will get easier, it won't make the pain go away but it will get easier. You mom is with you in spirit and she would want you to be happy.

Answer 6

May her sole rest in peace. Well you can still get married. Yes it would be odd but then you have to move on in life. They are not going to be by your side always. So go ahead and make all the arrangements and proceed.

Happy married life!!

Answer 7

The question is not well-framed, you need a partner to get married. Among Hindus, there is a custom of Kanyadan, and if a bride is fatherless, then someone offers to do so, and it is considered a pious act.

Answer 8

This is going to be a hard wedding for you. I know your mother would be proud of you. Try to have some one that was close to you and your mother their for you, it might make it a little easier on you.

Answer 9

i feel your pain my mom died about 10 months ago and i got married two weeks ago buti had a memorial for her by lighting candles all around her picture and i had praise dancers dance in her memory so even though she wasnt here in the physical i still felt like she was there in spirit. its going to be tough but you will make it threw trust me, so good luck and try to enjoy your beautiful wedding but i know its going to be even more emotional.

Answer 10

i am very sorry to know about yr loss. may u be strong and calm.

either u can wait for a few months to pass so that time heals yr wounds little bit. or u can marry now since yr ma in spirit will be happy if u r not sad for her. yr ma is alive. in u she is alive. keep her good qualities alive in u and so she will live in u forever and ever.
all the best

Answer 11

You bring future spouse to the wedding site, and you say your vows. It will be hard to move on without your mother, but the day is about you and your future. It's not about the past.