well...my fiance and i were celebrating our 3yrs anniversary when somehow we seemed to be heading to stage 4. he accidentally(i suppose) went inside me. it wasn't really inside i think..but i'm not sure. that's y i'm asking this here..how deep do u have to go to lose ur virginity and how do u know? is the hymen hurt just by touching or pressin it? if it's hurt does it always bleed? fyi: i'm thekind of person that wants to give myself for the first time on my honeymoon night.
Thanks!
2007-07-22 04:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by jb012jb 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ohh thanks for all the replies! but as read through them..i didn't really feel like he went inside. all i felt was him pushing on somewhere near the vagina area. how do u girls know when someone's inside u? how does it feel? haha sryy for asking so many questions but i'm really curious!
2007-07-22 04:31:18 · update #1
well, no one can actually tell you how deep he went, it is still your body. if you did not feel the penetration pain, he was probably just fooling around the opening of your vagina.
your hymen most probably was not damage din the process, although there´s no guarantee that you have one, or that you have nor broken it already by riding/biking/other sports.
it is not that important anyways.
2007-07-22 07:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by chem_freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not everybody bleeds. However, given that you're a virgin you would definitely know if he was all the way in. In addition to being concerned about losing your virginity, you need to think about unwanted pregnancy. There is a risk if he's inside you at all and even if its really brief. Back to the virginity issue, its not just about the hymen, since women involved in active sports can damage their hymen. It is about sex. Sounds like you'all need to chill out if you're going to wait until after the wedding, because once you've gotten this far its really hard to stop there.
2007-07-22 04:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by pag2809 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've lost your virginity if you've had intercourse, regardless of whether or not your hymen was broken. I mean you can break your hymen riding a horse but you're still a virgin aren't you?
2007-07-22 04:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by bimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the penis goes into your vagina at all, you have lost your virginity.
it doesnt always bleed, and your hymen does not always break when you lose your virginity. a lot of women have folding or "sleeve" hymens that fold down during intercourse.
2007-07-22 04:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Raychel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no such thing as a hymen. people are born with it, i guess but it goes away. if it went in at all i don't think you should be worrying about it because you stil don't know what sex is like and it's not like you actually had sex; it just slipped in. it will still be a completely new experience when it happens and you shouldn't get all upset and think you're not a virgin anymore just because of technicalities.
2007-07-22 04:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are no longer a virgin the minute the penius is inserted into the vagina. (even if it is only a centimeter)
2007-07-22 04:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it went in you, that is intercourse, therefore, you are not a virgin anymore.
2007-07-22 04:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋