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...i mean...they've broken up months ago! and the girl already has another boyfriend.... and her ex boyfriend who is also my close friend... told me that he likes me... i don't know if i like him or not...but if i did... would it be right?!

2007-07-22 02:17:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

1. He is also one of my closest guy friends...
2. They broke up around... 5 months ago i think? But they are still friends...

2007-07-22 02:31:17 · update #1

3. He is not a player at all...he's a really nice decent guy...

2007-07-22 02:32:26 · update #2

4. Maybe the reason why i don't know if i like him or not is because there are many factors which confuse me...? like for example, my friend.

2007-07-22 02:36:08 · update #3

16 answers

A true friend would never date a friends old ex one way or the other.

Doens't sound like a hard decision for you. Your not sure if you even like him.

2007-07-22 02:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by dark_knight 2 · 2 1

Personally, I don't think there is a wrong or a right...it depends on the circumstances and each relationship is different. How was the breakup between the two of them - friendly and amicable or nasty and torrid? If the latter, then you may lose your friendship. Also, how long ago was it? two months ago - not a good idea - two years ago, maybe it will be ok. You have to weigh up these questions and then weigh up how you would feel if you lost your friend - you say she is one of your closest friends, but you dont' know if you like him - so I wouldn't risk it. How do you think your friend would feel sitting around a dinner table watching her ex snuggle you? How would YOU feel? If you still think she'd be ok, then sure go for it - if not, then back off girl. There's plenty of men out there!!

2007-07-22 09:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rosiegirl 2 · 2 0

well it won't be right, no, but it won't be wrong either.

ask yourself the same question if the situation was reversed: your close friend wants to date your ex. would you be okay with that?

then weigh which is more important to you, your relationship with your close friend or a maybe relationship with a guy whom you're not even sure you like.

at the end of the day, noone can tell you if you're right or wrong. it's your own decision to make :)

p.s. one thing though, if you like him you'd know it immediately ;)

2007-07-22 09:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by flyfm_jules 2 · 0 0

This will ultimately come down to your feelings of propriety.
If it is serious and you think this might be your soul mate then the uncomfortability level would be worth it. My personal
opinion is that the world is too wide and there are
too many pieces out there to cat around in my own backyard
(so to speak).

2007-07-22 09:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0 0

NO!to me,that is the ultimate betrayal,think about it,he probably doesn't really like you,he is probably just trying to get back at her by dating you.
Then again,he really might,just look deep before you leap!You don't want to get hurt and lose a good friend.

2007-07-22 09:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Luck 6 · 0 0

I think you should just continue your relationship with that boy if he has a kind-hearted (not all boys are playboys you knows?) but if he has bad record of life maybe you should Forget about him (There still many men in this world)

2007-07-22 09:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

if you can all be adult about then yes ......im going out with one of my friends ex's ...they had been broken up for over a year before we got together .....but he still wont speak to me ...which very childish in my eyes

2007-07-22 09:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by massdebater 3 · 0 0

Of course it's right!!!!

Just make sure you do have feelings for him,
so your friend doesn't turn around and say you did it to spite her.
you know what girls are like
Good Luck!!!!

2007-07-22 09:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cutemum 6 · 0 1

you already know you want to, right?

Keep in mind that one action will cause another, so beware of the perpetual motion that it will cause, however, k?

2007-07-22 09:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Noone i 6 · 1 0

Why not!?!
After all as you have said, she has moved on....was the break up acrimonious? If not then go for it.

2007-07-22 09:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by kittykatts 4 · 0 0

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