I had a convicted murder tell my husband that if I contacted his parole that he was going to be "one p*ss*d off motherf*ck*r. I am feeling like that was an unveiled threat. What should I do? Would anyone else feel like that was a threat? I sont know what to do and am a little scared.
2007-07-22 01:45:36 · 9 answers · asked by papillongirl 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
well he is dating my mother, he has slapped her, knocked her down, and threaten to choke her to death. plus he goes to the bar and drinks at home, which he is not suppose to be drinking as a part of his parole.
2007-07-22 01:57:20 · update #1
well when someone that shot a woman 5 times in front of their 2 year old child and spent 16yrs in prison says that to you that he is p*ssed off at you it is kinda scary, look at what he did to the last woman he was p*ssed off at and what he does to my mom when he is mad, i am 28 and married he knows where i live.
2007-07-22 02:05:17 · update #2
It's called intimidation, and it's illegal. You can't make a threat against somebody for calling the police or a probation officer, or anybody who is in public service.
Then again, it isn't quite a threat... he said he'd be "p*ss*d off," but we all know that legal definitions/terminology and what this guy is actually saying are two different things. It is a veiled threat (not unveiled), and that is something you should speak with local law enforcement about. They're there to serve and protect. I wouldn't talk to his parole officer, but I would go to local law enforcement and let them go to the parole officer. I used to supervise a parole office and you don't know how many times people call to cry wolf about parolees. A call from law enforcement to his parole officer would be more effective.
You should also know that a parole violation is like a drop in the pond or a flash in the pan. Unless there's a new offense, they're in & out in no time.
No matter what, you can't just let this guy dictate how things are going to be just because he's willing to use force to get his way. The drinking alone probably won't get him a violation because of overcrowding in most states. Your mother and family should call the local police or sheriff's department get an order of protection issued, change the locks, and get an alarm system and/or a guard dog.
Knowing a bit more about his history: Go to the parole officer as the other answerer suggested. He has the guys case information, he knows the guys history as good as anybody. You have to do something, and that is what you should do. He knows being on parole is his weakness, and that's why he's used such blunt language to intimidate you.
2007-07-22 01:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask what exactly were you gonna contact his parole officer for in the first place ? It's important for us to know in order to answer your Q correctly .
Please add 'additional comments' .
Caution to you . . . . Do not take the advice of any of these answers until you tell us why you were gonna contact his parole officer in the first place .
EDIT* - Get ahold of his parole officer immediately . Take your time and explain everything in detail . Make it very clear of what his violations are. . . alcohol and violence upon your mother . Say NOTHING to your mother about this . NOTHING . No hints , no nothing . Don't act as if you've done something and don't say anything like 'you'll find out' etc .
I know you love your mother but she cannot be trusted on this issue . Her judgement is impaired due to her own inability to respect herself . Anything and everything she would do or say would only put her life and your life in great danger .
Take care of this immediately and thoroughly . Then after telling his parole officer , tell the police .
Your lives are in danger at this very moment . Make no mistake about it . Heed this advice and live . Ignore it and you just may lose your mom .
I'm a former law enforcement officer .
2007-07-22 01:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he's violating parole, he will be back in the slam as soon as you drop the dime. Most convicted murderers go thru life in a state of discontent anyway, besides the police won't rat you out, so he can only speculate on how he got outed .
2007-07-22 01:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would consider it a very thinly veiled threat and worthy of contacting his parole officer. How in the heck did he get out of jail!
Coming from a murderer, and a sadistic one as him, I would consider that a threat and if anyone tells you otherwise just haven't seen what they can do to people and their children!
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2016-11-10 02:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First contact the police and let them in on what is going on.
2007-07-22 02:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by schneider2294@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree that it was a veiled threat. While I am not condoning his past or present actions, I dont see where stating how he would feel is in anyway a threat.
2007-07-22 01:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He didn't threaten to do anything, but I would still consider it an implied threat.
2007-07-22 02:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did not understand your question, please excuse me .
2007-07-22 23:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by hkg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋