This guy is like my best friend Hes so nice but I'm not sure If I should go out with him--
He was just dumped by my girl best friend because she got told he was cheating on her he wasn't but he flirts with everyone help me!!!
2007-07-22 01:35:12 · 10 answers · asked by PILOTRIOT;Scarlett 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
can i say this you need to think this through before you would do this because once you start to date after being friends you can never ever go back to just being friends which is a hard part then you also have to take into account your feelings and then you both need to sit down and discuss your feelings together and you need to decide wheter or not you want to change your relationship and then you also need to decide and talk to other friends who you trust and only the friends you trust to see how they feel and above all else talk to your mom or his mom and see how they would feel about the two of you being more then just friends that is the most important is to also have the families blessings but above the whole world listen to your heart and not your head or anyone else but do the things i suggested and then you should be able to get some of a result that may help you and if you ever need anymore advice contatc me i can try to help
2007-07-22 02:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by skyppolar_green 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right.
First of Think about it if you went out with him you will be hurting your best girl mate and if you guys break up then that will damage your special friendship it may never be the same again. If You like him go for it but just think forward to what could happen.
2007-07-22 01:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you would be willing to go for coffee anytime as a friend. I personally wouldn't agree to a date. I would let him and your friend know that you want to remain neutral in any disputes they may have about one another as its the quickest way to lose friends by becoming involved in a break- up.
2007-07-22 01:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. Do you think your friend would be annoied by going out with him. If not, it is a great oppertunity if you like him because best freinds know alot about each other.
2007-07-22 01:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by maddieluvforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless u have feelings for him or some sort of physical attraction, then going out with him is OK. as u said u guys are just friends if its more than that then its best not to.
2007-07-22 01:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Troubled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly if you feel the same way go for it, but i am not springing bad luck on you but if you to happened to split up your friendship wouldn't the same afta.
2007-07-22 04:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your gut feeling. if you do like them just agree that if anything does go wrong in your relationship that you will still treat each other just as you did before. great friends. It worked for me.
2007-07-22 01:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't think more than a friendship is a good idea, let him know you value his friendship more than a relationship.
good friends are hard to find.
2007-07-22 01:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love him ignore what ever people are saying cos they will keep saying even if you are not going out with him ,one advice, just follow your heart.wish you luck
2007-07-22 13:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Gina N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the drama
2007-07-22 01:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by prop4u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋