would my spouse be cheating on me if she choose to hang with her friends more than , and she shows a dont care attitude like for example everything i tell her she answer whatever and she act like i'm not when i'm standing in front of her.
2007-07-22 00:36:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That wouldn't fit my definition of cheating, and it doesn't fit any legal definitions of adultery, but each person decides what their definition of cheating is. It certainly doesn't sound very loving of her, nor does it sound like a good relationship.
2007-07-22 00:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her behavior towards you does not necessarily mean that she is cheating. She may not think that your marriage is going very well and that rather than sit down and talk to you about them and try to work them out, she has the I don't care attitude. Which, will only hurt your marriage and not help it. Sit down with her and talk to her. Find out why she chooses to be with her friends more than being with you and find out why she keeps saying "whatever" anytime you do try to start a conversation with her.
2007-07-22 00:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she lost respect for you? Did you offend her to the point that she just doesn't care anymore? Sounds like the communication between you two has broken down and the relationship may be coming to an end. Sorry.
2007-07-22 00:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,i dont think so but you need some answers!
I think you just need to sit her down and ask her is there any problems between yourselves and what can you do to change things.Perhaps you are at different stages in your life and you both have different wants/needs.May I ask what age you both are?If its a big age gap,this could be the problem that you both want different things
2007-07-22 00:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she shows a don't care attitude.
When you use to talk how was it. Did you listen?
Why bother to talk if things don't change anyway.
At least she got your attention as it seems.
Hey what do I know its just a guess.
2007-07-22 00:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by silverwing_68732 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may or may not be cheating but she deffinately doesn't care enough about you to give you the full attention that you need. Regardless of whether she is cheating or not, it's time to end things.
2007-07-22 00:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds Young minded. A little immature. She definitely is being disrespectful toward you. Give her space and a little time.
Be distant and don't help her in any way. Let her do thing on her own and see if she grows up a little.
2007-07-22 00:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by jamesrichmond28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not cheating. What that is, is no interest in you. You should discuss how you feel with her and ask if there is a particular reason for her behavior.
2007-07-22 00:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have answered your question yourself just by asking it {if it looks like,smells like,dont taste it cause it probably is} before you freak,think is this how she has always treated you or has she just started treating you this way, either way ask why and demand better or start treating her likewise and explain to her why you are doing this,unless youve been treating her like this allalong. if so maybe shes the one sending the message?
2007-07-22 01:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by backstabbedbutnotdead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you described, sounds like you have done something to annoy her or make her mad. Give her a bit of space.
2007-07-22 00:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋