spinster (old fashioned word for unmarried woman with very negative conotaion) - is it possible that she has cursed me? She has always been mean and nasty to me...
2007-07-21 21:12:31 · 14 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Try writing a letter to the universe of exactly who you are after, be specific about some things as in height, hair colour if thats important or what you most want in that person.. it cannot find you if it does not know you are looking
2007-07-22 02:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Part-time Antagonist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I have been married three times. But the third one is the only time that I have really really been in love. The first was high school ''love'', the second time I was settleing for less. I was in my 40s when I found the man that I am married to now. You are not on a time limit to find love. Just try to meet new people and think of dating as finding a friend not a mate. Don't be afraid to make the first step...that is how I met my hubby. There is no such thing as a curse.
2007-07-22 07:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The advice not to let your mothers cruel words take energy from your life is right on target. You are you alone. You might need some couseling to get rid of that negativity from someone who was supposed to love you.
Don't try so hard. It's sort of like not finding something until you stop looking for it. Love is the same way. Unless you have the personality of an alligator on meth, somebody will find you physically attractive and then find what's in your character even more beautiful. He's out there. Don't give up.
2007-07-22 10:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want love you can find it, but not sitting at home. Finding love is hard work, you have to make yourself available and go where single people are, not bars as you could end up with an alcoholic.
I met my second wife at a dance seminar. I had been dancing and taking lessons from the man who held these seminars for over 2 years and it finally paid off, I have been married to her now 14 years.
I was in a bad marriage 19 years the first time and believe me being alone is much better than being in a bad marriage.
Being female you have the advantage over single males. Just go where people meet, dress nice, not fancy and smile and have a positive outlook on life and men should approach you. don't be afraid to approach them if you see someone you want to meet.
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2007-07-22 07:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not cursed....i found love when i wasn't even trying...i had just gotten out of a bad five year relationship i moved up here on a whim and got a job at a gas station one month later i got a call from a male customer while i was closing asking me out and i've been with him going on three years now and im completely happy...just stray from the bar scene and make apperances in public if you don't have a job that works with them everyday and someone will come to you....just remember to smile and have fun because men love a woman would can hold her own....don't stress about it or when you do find someone you'll be more clingy and men will run...
2007-07-22 04:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by buschchick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good that your mother isn't you and it's even better that
she can't control your life once you're ready to reclaim power
and control over it. Do not allow what your mother
says to you to stick in your mind. You'll not become a spinster
because everyone is entitled to love once they open up to it and give it freely. Your probability pool is yours alone so
don't believe everything your mom says or throws into it. She won't always be right, atleast not with you making your own choices and decisions in life. Take back your power and ignore her nasty comments. You're going to be just fine :)
2007-07-22 05:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Van T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She didn't curse you except in your unconscious. Unconsciously, part of you believes this, and it may be causing to to shy away from relationships, or break them off when they start to get serious.
About the time you stop looking for love, it creeps up and finds you.
2007-07-22 04:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cheese Fairy - Mummified 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she did not curse you. Do not give that kid of negativity any energy. Be positive. Be yourself. Love will come into your life when you are ready. You have to respect yourself first.
2007-07-22 04:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by RAVEN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Curses aren't real. Escape mommy and go find a love.
2007-07-22 04:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by mathaowny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Out there is your perfect partner,same for every one.
It just a matter of time before you find each other.
For true.
2007-07-22 04:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋