When was the incident when someone or something made you feel most ugly and hurt (whether un/intentionally)?

Question

mine was when i was 16, and ran into my mom's lady friend (sort of) at the store one day and she said, "oh, hi, it's you, i thought you were your brother"

Answer 1

When I first saw Napolean Dynamite and realized that was what I looked like in high school...

Answer 2

I've always been a thick girl, but in all the right places. Well I gained a lot of weight with my first daughter and then gained 30 mores pounds by the time she was 2 because of the birth control I was using. Anyway I was walking down the street I used to live on and there was this auto repair shop there and one of the guys said to me, you have a very pretty face, but he mumbled something else that I didn't hear and probably didn't want to hear anyway. Lucky I stopped the birth control and went back to my prepregnancy weight within about a 1 1/2 after that, but that was harsh and I know he wasn't trying to be mean...he was just being truthful. I used to prefer to think that I was invisible, but he made it quite obvious I wasn't.

Answer 3

I had this awful boyfriend a long time ago that would critique everything I ate... I lost 20 pounds while going out with him and got down to 115. He was horrible... always made me feel fat when I obviously wasn't. Haha... it took me about 3 months to gain all of the weight back when I broke up with him.

My mom is like a size 2 and I'm a size, oh... 10ish these days, and she always seems to unintentionally let me know that she knows that I am "SO MUCH" bigger than her... whenever she buys me clothes they're way too big. Ugh.

Answer 4

Didn't really make me feel ugly but.....

I was in the 4th grade and each week an art teacher would come into the class to have a little session with the students that lasted maybe an hour or so.

I asked the art teacher a question and she turned to me and said "Are you as stupid as you look?"

I'll never forget it. I'm not sure what I asked but how could you say that to a kid????

Answer 5

A week before a friend had her baby we were joking around about being ugly. I had totaly forgotten the conversation until about three days after her daughter was born and I remarked "Oh my she looks just like you".

Answer 6

I have had alot of experiences and they made me stronger but in elementry I was heavy and my hair was cut short and i dressed up as an angel for halloween and some of my own friends called me a chubby angel it hit right where it hurt.

Answer 7

When shopping in the mall with my older sister, and one of the sales person came up to us and said , oh u must be sisters, and then my sister said, i dont look like her, that really hit me hard, that was the worse think a sister could do to another sister, i dont forget that but i forgive her, cuse thats just who i am.

Answer 8

when i was about 16 my best friends brother said that i was going to look better the older i got. even though he was right and people have said what they thought about my looks, i still think of that comment and have a hard time accepting compliments

Answer 9

Dizz all of us do it sweetie, being truthful and tell them the way you experience is the perfect way of coping with it. in the event that they're a real buddy they are going to see previous errors and forgive. Love ya hun Hugs Sugar malicious program

Answer 10

My aunt.
I was almost 15.

She said, "God, Cheryl, you're fatter than me and I'm six months pregnant."

Now I ask you, Is that anything to say to a teenage girl whose body is in a constant state of flux?

Talk about cruel and hateful.