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My father told me that my overweightness is very unattractive.... I think that was not only cruel but inappropriate. Am I wrong?

2007-07-21 17:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by zoey 1 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

9 answers

maybe unattractive to him maybe attractive to someone else. i am a fat girl and have had much more sucess with guys than most of my skinny friends because i am confident in myself. to hell with someone who doesn't like how you look take em off the list and move on. and your dad is a jerk. also if he used the word overweightness he needs to work on his english skills more than you need to change your appearance to make him happy.

2007-07-21 17:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Carmina H 2 · 0 0

I'm overweight by about 30 lbs....I totally agree. Being overweight isn't attractive (don't get me wrong though...there are some that are still attractive eventhough they're overweight)....but the bottomline is that everyone would look better if they'd lose a few pounds (only if they need to within limit). My husband doesn't look at me like he used to since I'm a little overweight and I'd love to lose a few...2 kids later and I'm overweight. However, no one should be mistreated or be lectured by someone else about us being overweight...we're well aware that we are. We just need to figure out a healthy way of eating and living. Don't let it get to you though, my Dad also let me know that I was overweight. (He's an alcoholic anyway...so who cares what he thinks.) You need to do what's right for yourself and your health...the chances of getting heart disease increase when someone's overweight. Good luck with whatever comes your way and whatever you decide...its hard, I know, I'm there too.

2007-07-21 17:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Hippity-Hopscotch Girl 3 · 0 0

Well, being obese is unattractive. Being chubby and plump is not unattractive. I'm sure he was just being concerned about you.

2007-07-21 17:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0 0

it is unattractive , you dad should tell the truth. america does not tell the truth . just so you will feel good. the truth hurts *****

2007-07-21 17:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not everybody is like your father. I'm attracted to chubby girls they are many like me

2007-07-21 17:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you are not wrong. what he said was wrong...well the way he said it . He could have said he is concerned about your health & not made metion of your abilty to attract a boy.

2007-07-21 17:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by feedmethai 2 · 0 0

No. Some things are better left unsaid. You are beautiful and your dad is just mad that he doesn't look that good.

2007-07-21 17:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 0 0

He sounds like an @sshole to me.

2007-07-21 17:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your not wrong your very right it was rude and very mean.

2007-07-21 17:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by bmanwarren1979 2 · 0 0

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