I need advice regarding my wife?

Question

I love my wife and she is naturally beautiful. Not just to me either... she is a real stunner!. The problem is she wears ALOT of makeup. I don't like it. She ignores my preference for much less, and sometimes has become angry when I tell her she looks great without so much and I would like her to wear less.

Is there any way I might get what I want?

Answer 1

For some reason, some women don't see themselves as beautiful unless they have pounds of makeup on...I personally don't understand it. Just talk to her, tell her how you feel, and decide whether or not it's an issue worth fighting over.

Answer 2

Why don't you take her to get a make over!!

Take her some place where they specialize in the natural makeup look.

If you get her in to one of these places and they show her how great she can look with less makeup she may just like it and cut out all the extra!!!

It never hurts to try. The only thing she can do is leave there and put on more make up. So give it a try.

She has probably always done her makeup this way. This was probably the way she was taught to put it on and doesn't know any different. So naturally she doesn't feel like herself without it on. This is her it always has been.

So if you take her in for a makeover and they show her that she can be just as beautiful with less she may really like it and go that way.

But if not, what is the big deal? You married her like this to begin with. Just stand by her and love her no matter what if the makeover doesn't happen in time she may lighten up but if not you choose to marry this look.

Good Luck

Answer 3

Does she take the makeup off? Like before bed or something? Well when she has no makeup on make sure to look in her eyes and tell her how naturally beautiful she looks. Keep doing that mostly when she has no makeup on and pretty soon she will probably start believing you. Most women wear alot of makeup because they think they look ugly without it and its usually not true.. most women would get mad if you said something so just follow what I said and it should work!

Answer 4

She's an adult. She will resent you treating her like a child and telling her what to do.

So, try ignoring the fact when she does, but don't compliment her. But, when she is looking great to you, praise her, compliment her, be very attentive without pointing out the makeup thing. She might come to like the positive attention without the negative comments about the makeup and you wanting your way.

Answer 5

You can always get what you want. Your problems is you want her to get what you want. Did the marriage contract specify you would tell her what to wear, how to put on makeup and what to use, and so forth? Is she entitled to her own judgments about how she looks or is she supposed to ask you about everything? Do you really want a wife who asks your permission, and opinion, on everything she does? Or, are you willing to acknowledge that she is an independent human being who obviously had the good sense and intelligence to choose you as her mate? After all, if she is smart enough to have chosen you she should be smart enough to decide how much and what kind of make up she needs. What level of control are you looking for in this marriage?

Answer 6

my boyfriend tells me the same freaking thing and it annoys the hell out of me. What u need to understand is this. After a woman is used to wearing makeup, being without it is like, not brushing your teeth in the mornings. She wears it because she likes to look nice. Its her own personal standard for herself. Nothing you can say will change her mind. U will only cause arguments if u continue. Its sorta like not wearing your jewelry after years of wearing it. U feel naked. I don't care how beautiful your wife might be without her makeup, she will never feel as pretty as she does when she wears it. Allow her to be pretty. Whats the point in arguing over something so petty?

Answer 7

Sounds like the more you say you don't like it the more she likes to wear it. She probably thinks you are saying it because your jealous so she does it on purpose. I would just bite my tongue and let it go for a month and see if she starts wearing less.

She will eventually figure it out by herself anyway just take a lot of pictures of her when she looks good without it and hang them around the house and put a couple with a lot of makeup on next to them. But don't say anything about the makeup that she is still applying.

Answer 8

Ask her why she needs to wear such make up if she is trying to get an attention from new guy knowing she is already marrried? She knows that you don't prepare herself to wear such heavy because you want her the normal beauty. If you have kids then let these kids be the subject so she will realize how important her kids to her and your married/family to be intact?
Observed her deeply and talk to her in compassionate way when she is a good mood.

Answer 9

When she is not wearing any makeup tell her that you are becoming horny and you love her very much and make love to her. and when she is with a makeup tell her that she looks ok but not bad she is ok . When she is in good mood ask her politely and in a friendly manner and with love that why she puts on so much of it a little is OK and it turns you on . then if she loves you she will reduce it or if she don't love you then ........ I don't want to say Brother .

Answer 10

Man, if you are cleaning the house, that is the first step. Which you have done... Second, check your hygiene. If that is ok, then their is something going on, either she is truly tired, or she is having an affair. Every time I clean the house I "get me some", it is a given! You need to talk to her and ask her why she does not want to have sex. Another thing, you need to "make love to her", by her a toy such as a bug that she can enjoy that you can use on her. She could be bored with just having sex if it is the same old replay.