Well Im home now after withdrawing cash and how can I tell her no no more loans, I like you but you need to bite the bullet and exist with a budget and please stop asking me for money.She took rings off her finger for surety.It's like I give my neighbor an inch and they take a mile.She has four young daughters.
2007-07-21 14:51:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe ask her to do your laundry and house cleaning for you in return. This she might not like to do and put her off from asking you again. But it is nice to be able to help, as long as it doesn't become a regular thing they expect.
2007-07-21 15:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The mistake you made you said you had to go to the bank to take money out.. Never tell anybody that.. Now it's up to you to just tell her that the bank is closed from here on out. Also tell her that ya also have a family to feed and bills to pay..
2007-07-22 11:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by mixermatt2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask her to come inside so you guys can talk. AFTER she pays the 30 back. You must be straight up with her, and tell her you have your own needs with the money. Or after she asks again, tell her that you have use for the money, and tell her, that this needs to stop, or something like that.
2007-07-21 21:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is paying you back I dont see a problem but if she borrows and never gives back when you need it then yeah say list I have a lot of things i need to take care of and I can not afford to loan you money untill you can pay me back .I'm sorry you know if I could I would but I am starting to sink and I need to take care of my family first.
2007-07-21 22:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't go handing out money to people. If you want to you can go grocery shopping with her and pay, or something like that. Look around in your area and find the charities - if she won't take charity then she really does not need the money
2007-07-21 22:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I d say forget the speech about no more loans. Just ask her with details on when you can expect your money back. make sure she understands you need it to pay for gas or whatever.that way when you would need to fuel you can just go up and ask her for it./
2007-07-21 21:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by mthollync 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When she ask for money just tell her you dont have any money on you and that your sorry. But if she pays you back each time she barrows money there shouldnt really be a problem but if you still dont like it then just tell her you dont have the money.
2007-07-21 21:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you started it by lending money in the first place. now you are reaping the rewards of your own actions. She is an adult, simply tell her you won't be loaning any more money to her.
2007-07-21 21:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off, stop giving her money.
Start whinning yourself your broke.
She'll run the other way.
You do not have to support her, or lend her $.
2007-07-21 22:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by lost 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋