me and my boyfriend had sex and when we were doing it he but it in the wrong hole and i stared to bleed y did that happen does any one know
2007-07-21 11:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
im a girl im not gay and i mean the butt ho*
2007-07-21 17:42:24 · update #1
I find it hard to believe that it was an accident that he inserted his penis in your anus, versus your vagina. It takes a fair amount of pressure to insert the penis in the anus, especially if it was not lubricated, much different than the pressure needed to insert the penis in the vagina. The bleeding was probably because he did not use any lube and/or he caused some damage by being too rough.
2007-07-21 20:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ED,
First of all was it in the front or back? It might be the cherry popping. I doubt it was in the butt. If it was then get lube next time or do it another position. I don't agree with *BEAR. I don't think you should be trying to put fingers on the butt or toys. I read on another forum a story about a girl and she had done that and now her anus was leaking feces, there was no way to control it and didn't want her parents finding out about it. Can you be more specific which hole? It would really help
Do women really have three holes??^^^^^^^
2007-07-21 19:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off, you should probably change your aviator and your name if your a woman, because everyone thinks your gay. Seeing as this is "woman's health" despite the name and picture I'm just going to assume your a girl. You have three holes down there, your anus (your bum hole), your urethra (what you pee out of) and your vagina (where you put a tampon and where a guy puts his penis). It is pretty much impossible that your boyfriend put his penis in your urethra, because it is very small and is not made for anything to go in it. He could have put his penis in your anus (this turns some people on), but you would have know if he did that and there wouldn't be any bleeding. He put his penis in your vagina. There is a thin layer of skin that partially cover the opening of your vagina. This is called your hymen. When you put tampons in, the hymen is not effected. When you have sex for the first time, the man's penis breaks the hymen and there is usually a small amount of pain and blood for almost everyone. There is more blood and it is more painful the thicker your hymen is.
I hope I helped!â¥
2007-07-21 19:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by lola w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I"m not sure what hole he put it in. The only other hole that would accommodate the penis would be the anus. It is very common to have some bleeding after having sex for the first time...even if you had been playing around before.
2007-07-21 19:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ren E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure if you're a guy or a girl... you have a pic and name of a guy, but you say he put it in the wrong hole, assuming you have two holes, then you must be a girl...If you're a girl and your bf put in in your booty, you may just be bleeding from the sudden stretching of the tissues. He should try fingering you from the booty first to slowly open it up. They also sell toys made for that - to stretch out the booty so it can be ready for intercourse. You can get it at your local sex toy/novelty store. But to keep it clean, just stick to vaginal intercourse...Or...you may have a case of ulcerous colitis, which is when you have ulcers in your intestines and so blood comes out of your back door, usually when you poop.. you may want to pay the gastrologist a visit if you think this is the case... it could lead to colon cancer..But if you're a dude, i have no idea what you're talking about... did he put it in your nose or something? :)
2007-07-21 19:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bear 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your talking about the butt hole, being the wrong hole. You started bleeding because your muscles were probably tight because you weren't expecting it.
2007-07-21 19:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no accidents dear.It is OK to bleed a little but pouring out blood is not good. Yes,you can bleed even the next day or two.There is nothing wrong with A*al sex. But please believe me,there are no accidents.....
2007-07-21 19:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is normal for your 1st time. Old school use to call it popping the cherry. If it keeps happening make he may need to go a little easier
2007-07-21 19:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by nyc2caligal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do two men put it in the wrong hole?
2007-07-21 19:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by Smarty Pants 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why is a gay guy asking a ? about his boyfriend in the women's section ?
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2007-07-21 19:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by kate 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋