2007-07-21 11:57:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Absolutely, if you have open lines of communication in your relationship. You can not hide or change your sexuality....but you do not necessarily have to act on it.
If it fits the comfort zone of your relationship, you can have be involved with women outside of the relationship, but not be involved with men other than your partner.
If that doesn't work, you can bring women into the bedroom with your partner ( for many guys this is their #1 fantasy).
If that does not fit your relationship, you can simply have a monogamous relationship but both of you notice women.
No matter what format your relationship takes...communication is key. Jealousy is never a good thing in a relationship.
If your partner is not ok with your bisexuality, you really need to think hard about your future with that person...because wether you ever sleep with another woman again, the fact is, you will always be attracted to your same gender....and you can't hide that, or deny who you really are inside. And, no real relationship should make you deny yourself.
2007-07-21 16:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself am bisexual and my boyfriend is heterosexual. We'll have been together for 2 years in September and we're still as strong as we were the day we began dating. I'm one of the most loyal and faithful people that most people will ever know, for I have never looked at another man sexually, or ever thought about cheating him.
I could never cheat on another person, man or woman. It's immoral in my eyes. I'd tear my life apart before I cheated on someone.
2007-07-21 11:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Alley S. 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have a friend who is bisexual and she has been happily married for 7 years. Her husband is fully aware and of course they have problems such as any other relationship, but she also says that she can't see spending her life with anybody else. And she also says she is still attracted to women.
2007-07-21 12:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by buggs510 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you're thinking that the bisexual woman can't remain monogamous, you're wrong. There are just as many slutty bisexuals as heteros or gays, so this is irrelevant. The truth is, most bisexuals do want a monogamous relationship.
2007-07-21 12:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If the woman is in love with - and devoted to - the man, and if she feels that she can remain faithful to him, then the answer is yes. Bisexuality as an added factor is immaterial here; faithfulness is the main factor.
2007-07-21 12:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by daibato 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends on their collective understanding.
First, that she would be completely honest with him about her attraction to women, as well as, men (or him in particular).
Second, that he would be willing to accept her as she is, and not become possesive or feel inadequate in comparison to what other women may make her feel internally and/or externally.
I struggled with this situation, and can say from my personal experience, that a man in that scenario can handle it quite well if he is secure of himself, trusts you and your devotion to him, and accepts you as you are, entirely.
Heck, it could even spice up the relationship. ;-)
2007-07-21 16:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if she is monogamous in the relationship, or if their relationship is open for relational/sexual exploration.
If the answer is yes to both of these, then yes they can have a lasting relationship. If the answer is no for either party in the relationship hten no, they cannot.
2007-07-21 12:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Carol B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont know....my gf used 2 b bi she says she aint no more but i think shes lying cuz she knows im against it. anyways we've been 2gether 4 over 2 yrs but im not really sure how much longer this is gonna last cuz of sum other facts
2007-07-21 19:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would say yes. Most men are ok with something like that. Especially if another girl is brought into the relationship from time to time.
2007-07-21 12:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by Baker Baker 1-9 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think of you're truthfully not gay. you would be bisexual or asexual, yet you're leaning greater in direction of straightness because of the fact you pursue relationships with adult men and you have sexual desires approximately them. And particular, you may actually be asexual in case you have sexual desires approximately people. To be easy with you, i does not be shocked in case you have been asexual. on the different hand, I even tend to think of anybody's asexual (because of the fact i'm.) i think of you would be asexual because of the fact the only charm you have defined to others isn't probably sexual. sounds like crushes to me. you have sturdy admiration on your music instructor, the guy you're interested in, different females...etc. additionally, you're femininity has not something to do with your sexuality. it is style of stereotypical. yet do not subject approximately it. you would be superb, no count what sexuality you compromise directly to call your self :)
2016-12-14 15:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋