he wont talk to me he called me and told me he hates me. i am away on a trip and he hates me
2007-07-21 08:47:47 · 23 answers · asked by dramadiva23 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You told him over the phone? That was foolish, especially when you already knew how he felt about your having children.
That isn't the kind of news you give to someone over the phone.
Anyway, what is the question?
2007-07-21 08:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
supply him a bottle of lotion & go away him interior the bathing room for variety of an hour. i'm 29 weeks pregnant, have felt damaging from the 2d i found out and frequently times i do no longer even want my husband interior an analogous mattress as me, no longer to indicate thinking approximately having intercourse!!! in the experience that your husband won't be able to comprehend that, he's have been given some subjects. tell him to quit being so egocentric because of the fact as quickly as that toddler shows up, there is going to be so lots extra to be concerned approximately than having intercourse!
2016-10-09 05:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he hate you before you got pregnant or after you got pregnant...is he abusive? Does he use drugs or is he an alcoholic has he cheated on you?
Chances are if he hated you before you got pregnant this will only magnify the situation...if you answered yes to the above questions..you probably should leave him for your safety and your babies safety...he will use your child as a tool against you....If you really love him and want to work it out, try counseling...but you need to try and stay stress free for your health and the baby's health.
2007-07-21 09:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is totally acting immature. Why did he marry you then, just so the two of you could be together childless forever? If he was gonna have sex with you he should have known that's how babies are made. You need to talk to him. Did he just find out or why would he tell you he hates you? If he is beinh immature about this and isn't willing to accept this new life that is growing inside you then you need to leave this man.
2007-07-21 08:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know the circumstances behind his hatred, but if that is the case, you should seek a divorce. You need to think about your health and the new baby's and this does not sound like a very good environment to raise a child. Good luck to you in whatever you decide to do.
2007-07-21 09:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to find someone better then this. Why would he hate you just because you are pregnant? He agreed to have sex with you and he should know that when you have sex there is a risk that you can get pregnant.
2007-07-21 08:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what your question is, but my question to you is: "Why are you with an abusive man?" Careful now, but abusive I am not implying he hits you (you didn't indicate that), but he is obviously emotionally/verbally abusive.
Stop and think about the situation very carefully before you go home again. You aren't just thinking about yourself anymore. You are also now making decisions for your child.
2007-07-21 08:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by January Love 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well f*** him, he should know that having unprotected sex can cause a pregnancy, or even if you are on birthcontrol.. it happens. i dont think he literally hates u, he's prolly just really scared, so just give him some time to get used to the fact u're pregnant, and then u two need to sit down and decide how everythign id going to work out from now. good luck
2007-07-21 08:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's not cool! Guys act silly in the beginning but if he has a good heart and cares for you than he'll come around!
2007-07-21 08:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whats ur question?? why does he hate you?? if thats the case then its probably because some men just arent ready to have kids. or he could think that it isnt his. you need to talk to him and find out why he is saying stuff like that.
2007-07-21 08:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by liljess69692004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋