me and my bf who has not gone through puberty but has a bit like very little pubic hair, were hugging on each other, but when he was on me for like 5 sec. i felt his erection (on the outside of my vagina) so we stopped i know i was aroused because i went to the bathroom and there was sticky slimy stuff on my underwear. i dont think it was sperm because it was right out of my vagina. anyway he had boxers>shorts and i had underwear and thin shorts. (sports shorts) i've been stressing since feburary so my periods have been light. i had my period on june 10 this happened on june 22 and i got my period on july 10 but no brown it was all red except for the last day it got darker.. so any chance of pregnancy??
2007-07-21 08:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i have no pregnancy symptoms and he never took out his ***** and there was no skin to skin contact!!!!!!!!
2007-07-21 08:23:39 · update #1
No, you're not pregnant, but it was a good question. If any of his semen gets on your vagina lips, it is possible (but VERY rare) for sperm to work their way up inside you. Even if doesn't squirt, but just dribbles a few drops this can happen. There are plenty of virgins who have become pregnant (I had one patient) without the penis actually entering the vagina.
You two need to do some serious research on the web before you go much further. At the very least keep his plumbing away from yours. Even a finger that has semen on it can get you pregnant if inserted into the vagina or rubbed onto the labia (lips), so BE CAREFUL... I won't tell you to stop because I'm a realist, and my first GF and I were in the exact same situation you two are in. We got lucky... but you need to educate yourselves and PLAY SAFE! Any kind of sexual activity carries a lot of responsibility, especially emotional, and the farther you go, the more chance for hurt feelings there is in the future... I know I sound like your dad would, but you gotta trust me here... I been there and done that!
Also, sooner or later (and you WON'T know when!), he will reach the point in puberty where he has sperm to deliver to you. Save the heavy stuff for a few more years until you have good access to birth control. You'll be glad you waited...
Best wishes,
Ed, RN
2007-07-21 08:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by RNcalledEd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are probably not pregnant, stop worrying. But I would like to clear some myths that were left in other answers. Sperm just doesn't die as soon as it hits the atmosphere. It depends on the temperature of the environment and even still it does not die until the liquid around it dries up. Secondly, you can get pregnant from just contact but it is only if the sperm comes into direct contact with the vagina and even then the chances are like 1 in a million. Just relax and be more careful next time!!!
2016-05-19 05:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get pregant if sperm did not in contact with your vagina!
If you haven't even reached puberty, you guys are way too young to be doing this.
2007-07-21 08:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh no no no.. :) the discharge you saw is normal, it is called vaginal discharge.. this is the one that helps to lubricate vagina during intercourse or when you are horny.. sperms will just come out when your bf achieved orgasm.. since you were just hugging , i dont think he will come to a point where he will achieve orgasm.. by the way,. semens have short life.. ones they were exposed to air.. they will die.. thats why when one of the sperm cells unite with the egg cell, the other billion sperm cell dies..
2007-07-21 08:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by sandyqt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
The sticky stuff on your underwear is called discharge.
And if he hasn't even gone through puberty, then you guys don't need to be doing anything sexual or even arousing.
You're waaay too young.
2007-07-21 08:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey D 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You guys are way too young - for goodness sake he hasn't even gone through puberty yet!
2007-07-21 08:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Wildflower 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, sperm doesn't swim through clothes. You're not pregnant, so you don't have to worry anymore.
And that stuff in your underwear was from you.
2007-07-21 08:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by mrswolfwoodspiffypants 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it all depends on if you miss a period. that stuff that was on your underwear was not sperm.
2007-07-21 08:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ashley♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow... kids these days are just oblivious to the most obvious things. you cant get pregnant if hes dick hasnt been inside you, jesus! when girls get arroused, they get 'wet' in the vaginal region.
2007-07-21 08:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by ksisk44 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal girl stuff.
No boy stuff.
2007-07-21 08:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by cop350zx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋