I have a freind who had a baby at 19. dos that mean I have to get marryed and have children im 22 aready. I dont want kids at all forever I hate children. is it gonna make it hard to find a girl freind
2007-07-21 06:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Renting & Real Estate
No you get to make your own choices. Just find a woman who ALSO doesn't want children. Don't find one who does an expect her live the life you want.
2007-07-21 07:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by professorc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it doesn't mean that you should have a child now as well.Everybodys different and have different lives.Personally i say you have children when you want i.e when you're comfortable and think whether you will you be able to provide for your child?if you hate children it doesn't matter it wont make it hard to find a girlfriend coz many women don't want a child in their career right now i.e between the age of 20-30 coz they want to earn a proper living but make sure you tell her that you don't want children now.You never know you may change your mind but dont worry about it.
2007-07-21 14:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by mugglegyal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not HAVE to do anything. When you find the right person, you may choose to get married if you feel it is right. The same for children; you may change your mind when you find the right person. Right now you do not have to do anything that you don't want to.
I got married at 19. My husband had a good job (had had already finished his Associates Degree) and I had a good job at a bank (I didn't go to college until later). We did just fine even though I now feel it was way too young.
2007-07-21 14:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby at 19..that is way to young...you should start looking for a Girlfriend..Im sure there is another girl out there that doesnt want kids..a proper age is when you are like 25 or so...19 is such a young age...whomever had a kid at 19 was not thinking at all..at least finish college and get a life before you start making mistakes at the beggining...they are going to have a fun life working at mcdonalds unless their husband is the CEO of mcdonalds..anways..just wait..you should find a girl that has similiar beliefs..but its a small chance because most girls want a family
2007-07-21 14:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by ChrisM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hate kids , make sure you get a vasectomy and get it tested Before you have relations with a girl .
If you create a child , you will be a father forever . . .
It isn't Walmart , you can't return a kid .
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2007-07-21 14:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe children don't want you either!
2007-07-21 14:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋