Is there a middle ground?

Question

Until about 6 or 7 years ago, I always wore pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way for work each day, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity for my pantyhose. Right around the time that my wardrobe transitioning to skirt suits and going bare legged with skirts, I was wearing pantyhose for work only on occasion. One one of those occasions that I was wearing them, I just asked him if he was so curious about the hose, why doesnt he just try them. I then hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. Well long story short, he went absolutely ga ga over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat. Hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again, but I dont want things to get out of hand. At the same time, I don't want to deny it to him because of how much he liked it that one time. How can I achieve a balance here?

Answer 1

For heaven's sake. buy him a pair, one size fits all and tell him if he promisses only to wear them when you two are alone, get sexy with him, shave his legs, tell him how wonderful the silk feels when your legs are just shaved waxed and you put them on. See if he goes for it.

Sounds like you have fun in your relationship this is a good sign one that shows your husband is not afraid to be himself around you. You should love him the more for it. Enjoy every moment together these little things will make life easier in your old age I promise. Lucky girl

Answer 2

He liked the feeling? I hate pantyhose! But that's not the point.

You should talk to him about it and tell him that you're not very comfortable with him wearing them. See how it goes.

Edit (I got a thumb up BEFORE I wrote this part): I was in the same situation, although mine was a it more "extreme" (although, come to think of it, not really). I have a vibrator and my ex-boyfriend tried it on himself. Although I knew about it and didn't see the problem in that, I have to admit that, when I saw him do that, I was a bit grossed out for some reason. I told him I didn't want to see him do it, but I didn't mind him doing it on himself (considering guys can orgasm through the prostate, I don't see why I should deny him that pleasure). Now, if my new bf wanted to do that, I wouldn't mind and might actually do it to him. But to go back to the previous situation, I just wanted to point out that I didn't mind him doing it, I just didn't want to SEE him do it. But toeach their own.

Answer 3

I beg your padon lady but i'am not married and yet i find this very humourous !!!

Look this is a slightly delecate matter and maybe he is trying to reach out to you or perhaps there is something else.

I have a fiance i cherish everything she has but i unfortunately cannot wear her clothes or undergarments because i'am too big to fit in.

Even if i was able to wear one it would be just to make her laugh but i cant see myself enjouting them.

Its the woman that matters not the belongings!!!!

Answer 4

It's going to be a struggle between your needs and his, just like any other time. I've never heard of this before, but if it's not sexual, then let him do it when you're not around.

Answer 5

Wow! Ummm. I would just express your concern for his infatuation. Let him know that it's a little different that he's so excited about it, and you wouldn't want to get creeped out.

Answer 6

What do you mean "get out of hand"? What is it you fear?

If he enjoyed it so much, why deprive him?

(I think anyone who ENJOYS wearing the torture devices is insane, but that's just me.)

Answer 7

surrender, succomb to his needs. thats what every faithful and loving partner does. if you want your own life, separate yourself from others and live your own life. if you have already made your decisions and commited to something, keep your promise

Answer 8

isn't it like a woman to regulate a man's fun?