if you had a father who looked at you lustfully would that really disrupt any healthy?

Question

kind of relationship the two of you could ever have?have you lost your father at that stage really?

so just a look is enough then to sever the bond you think?also if you could tell your father had an erection when you sat on his lap when you were a little girl?could that just be coincidental or is it more serious?

but nothing ever happened,you just became very uneasy whenever around him

Answer 1

Yes, I would disown my father, no man should look at his daughter in that way. This kind of man is a disturbed individual and no woman needs a man like that in her life. I'm sorry honey, there no way around this, you need to stay away from this man.

Answer 2

much of wat you describe is very disturbing indeed.

for one I ahve seen 2 of your quesiton today - and both are related - and the answers are obvious. these things are wrong, they have devestating effects. such behaviours are not restricted to men only, women do them too. tho for some reason it doenst seem so much of a big deal when either a woman does it or it happens to young boys.

these things are horrific full stop. no matter what gender does it. no matter to whom it happens. granted an erection can only occur with a male tho.

I would be curious as to why ask about these things, and it would be a great shame if you where to allow it shape you towards hate. these people pass their horrific natures on in such ways. thats not to say its easy, its not. to experience such and loose all faith in men or women is sad, it sets you away from those that are decent, and those that are just people (most aint great people to be fair, but they arent monsters like that either).

there are other things worth holding on to - a hug from a friend or a parent for instance. that is not. it doesnt do you or others justice.

I wish you well, and good luck.

Answer 3

Don't assume too much since you say nothing ever happened. Still, pay attention to your feelings and do what it takes to make yourself feel safe. It is possible that he has a lustful eye toward you and is mentally strong enough to restrain himself. It is also possible that he will have a moment of weakness at your expense. You need to share this with someone who can do something and keep as much distance as you need until it's resolved. I hope it all works out for the best.

Answer 4

what you usually see in a father's eyes especially father's who have daughters is protection.

They don't usually have lust in their eyes, if they have that for their own daughter you can almost state that he has that for your friends as well and it is called pedeophile.

That you are his daughter makes no difference as this is an illness that is almost untreatable but you must leave, if he has touched you you can have him charged there is no statutes of limitations on this in most cases and places.

If your father is a pedophile you never really had a real father because his agenda is not one of protection or of your best interest, which is what parent's do, they keep their child's best interest at heart always, the job never ends.

Answer 5

No father should look at his kid in that way. That's sick!
I hope this father has not touched u in any way. The best advice i can think of is to remove ur self from the situation.

Answer 6

What kind of a sick question is this? A father should never ever look at his child in a lustful way at any point, unless he is sick in the head!!!!

Answer 7

absolutely. i went to live with my biological father and he was a total stranger to me at that point. i was so terrified to sleep and would push my dresser up against the door at night. it was a huge wardrobe type with wheels. he used to sleep naked and wander around and say inappropriate sexual things. hes still kind of weird that way, but i make sure im never alone with him. i was already sexuallly abused as a child and didnt need to experience that again. he later was convicted of having sex with an underaged girl who just happened to be his ex-wifes niece. so my fears were legit. i used to call him joey buttafucko.

Answer 8

There are hell lot of untold and secret Incest or perverted sex in many families.I pity you (or anyone who had experienced such things) if you had been molested by your bro's or father or cousins.'caz it deeply affects the person's sellf-esteem and self-confidence & grow pessimism in her/him.I have heard stories of dad daughter and sister brother relations and i have noticed such persons are slightly offset in their behaviour.

Answer 9

You must be a mind reader, rite? I have two daughters we are pretty close best buddies actually, they try to take me to parties and always want me to come and visit. You should just ask your dad, I mean what would it hurt?

Answer 10

a father shouldn't ever look at their son/daughter lustfully full stop