Why is it that some people so things to hurt other people...when at the end they end up hurting themselves...Why is it that out of anger someone would want to hurt a person that they love? Then they turn around and are feeling sorry for themselves and they feel this anger towards themselves because they have done something to hurt someone they love...
I can say I have done my fair share of bad things...but I see things now a days that I can't beleive...
2007-07-21 03:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by Gordita de Oro 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have tried talking to this person about what they did...because it did involve me...but he always tells me he is too ashamed to even look at me because he still loves me...he also says he wants to take time to think about the things he has done to me because he feels so overwelmed about the guilt...everytime he even starts to talk about it over the phone he cries or gets really angry at himself...and I want to help him I truely feel like he needs psychological help...
2007-07-21 03:54:29 · update #1
Don't know if you noticed but this question you are asking is many questions. Most things done from anger are due to ignorance,fear,jealousy, and or greed. People most often turn their anger to people they love trying to get attention, the anger is the intensity of the need. Check out anger management the movie Jack Nicholson, and Adam Sandler
2007-07-21 03:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by chris77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anger will quickly reason you to conquer particular inhibitions. have you ever each and every considered a sprint timid guy get cornered and insulted? he will come out struggling with like never previously using fact he has conquer inhibiting concern. Anger could be channeled wisely and used for stable instead of evil. Jesus replace into indignant and achieved great stable. quite some the key's having predetermined responses. something of the key's prepare and journey with periodic pondered photograph and adjustment.
2016-10-22 06:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People often act on their emotions without thinking. The emotional part of our brain evolved with the idea that we fight or flee. To go beyond these two alternatives requires us to use our thinking ability and come up with a better way, but most of the time we react without thinking and strike out. Anger management tries to get us to think and gives us alternative behaviors and helps us realize that most situations are no longer life threatening.
2007-07-21 03:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times we do let our emotions get the best of us. However, I have always been told that what a person say when they are mad, is what the person always felt. By you being angry it just makes it easier to say. I am guilty of it, but I think when its done we are just trying to hurt the person involved, but some don't generally see it that way.
2007-07-21 03:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by awhite7233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they haven't learned how to control their emotions. Something I heard years ago that I adopted was "you have to own your anger". It is easy to say someone MADE you mad, but no one but you are in charge of your emotions. You CHOOSE to get mad.
Edit: After reading your add'l details, I think if he is talking to you and saying let him deal with it, he is at least trying and you have to give him credit for that. A lot of people wouldn't take the time.
2007-07-21 03:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's immaturity and selfishness.
2007-07-21 03:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they realise how stupid their actions were.
2007-07-21 08:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by coan2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋