they claim to know how to handle your money and tell you that you will spend it all if they dont take over, they get angry at you for little things and will say out of the blue ' you wait and see , all that money will be gone', i almost feel like they want me to be broke again yet at the same time they give me advice and try to control how i spend my money and tell me what i should do. I even bought this person a used car, over 10,000, given them 2 grand and pay for lunch and other things we do, when i mentioned that they acted like ive done nothing for them and then said you wait and see, you're going to lose it all! whats their point in doing this?
2007-07-21 02:46:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
they say they are trying to help me but i sense spite at the same time
2007-07-21 03:03:33 · update #1
they also say comments such as 'you can sit on your *** like a king now and i have to work'
2007-07-21 03:04:30 · update #2
from what you say, it seems that person seems jealous of your win and is after you rmoney and isnt really your trusting friend. it's your money to keep or to lose.
if i won, i know what i'd do with my winnings, but its up to you to make your own mistakes and learn what you need to learn. maybe one lesson is to examine friendships.
2007-07-21 02:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by joe the man 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No No No. I see greed all over this. Seek out a personal investor and save.
After my divorce I got a sum of cash and my ex said it would be gone in a year due to a person in my family. He was right. If I had not 'seen the light with my own eyes' I would be broke and I'm in my 50's with no job!
You have been very generous to your friend. But friends and family can be very controlling with your money.
2007-07-21 02:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
they are trying to control your life. dont give them another cent and talk to a accountant or a financial advisor. if i were u i would do that before giving them another dime. did u ever consider that this person wants to screw u out of every dime u have and run off with the money. dont trust them, if they are your true friend they will understand . if they get mad at u for using your common sense then they arent worth being friends with...
2007-07-21 02:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are warning you without thinking - - they are actually TELLING you that they have every intention of ripping you off blind. Hire a GOOD lawyer and get your money away from your "friend" ASAP!!!
2007-07-21 02:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a fool and their money are soon parted. with some friends one does not need any enemies.
2007-07-21 03:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that person is not your friend. tell the person that you will no- longer be a pushover for him/her. a friend would never be so cruel. what stuns me is that, this "friend" is so blatant. This person does not take you seriously and should be ditched by you~
2007-07-21 02:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
dump them
you do not need friends with negative energy
2007-07-21 02:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
.....he isnt your friend at all, he only wanted your money.
2007-07-21 02:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by lean_andrea 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
sounds like they want your money..................
2007-07-21 02:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋