same here. if you really love someone you accept them for who they are, we all have our faults, no one is perfect, i wouldnt want someone to try and change who i am, i think its a control issue, if they do try to change you.
2007-07-20 23:35:59
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answered by Anonymous
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That is the only way because no one can change another person if that person don't want to change
2007-07-21 10:06:12
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answered by cheri 7
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Nope, i wouldnt change a thing. After all, what draws us to a person is how they think, act, live. If there was something to be changed, it's all wasted energy and time.
2007-07-21 06:32:09
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answered by intenseone 5
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me too! i wouldnt want to change anybody, but i would get annoyed of some things that they do and I dont really like. i know that might make me sound so selfish and all, but yeah. im not like that. i usually teel them how i feel. so im honest about how i feel about the person.
2007-07-21 06:33:51
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answered by pinkpoodles 4
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The only thing I try to change about my husband is his sloppy habits and it's not worth it, but I keep trying!!
2007-07-21 06:32:47
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answered by Anonymous
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amen... my experience tells me that it's that much harder to change the other person than just accepting him/her... cos it'll never happen and i'll end up in more tension and pain...
but we all have that urge... we just need to fight it and keep it from ruining us and the ppl whom we care about...! i found that the hard way with my dad... but now we're great! lol :)
2007-07-21 06:37:40
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answered by basharho 6
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I've always takes others as they are. I don't even dream of changing anyone, as I can't even change myself sometimes.
2007-07-21 06:30:40
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answered by Hornet One 7
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I can't do it.
We all say we are not possevive and obsessive, and we don't get jealous, and how great we are, but once you're in that relationship all that goes out the window and you become all them things.
2007-07-21 06:33:10
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answered by Quimby 2
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we entered into our relationship with all our faults exposed, no surprises and no expectations but the ones we ourselves wanted to improve... change each other? no ... our love is unconditional...
2007-07-21 06:36:26
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answered by wojjy 6
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What if you're dating Mr. Potato Head?
2007-07-21 07:45:33
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answered by Anonymous
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