I am 28 years old and she is 41 years old
2007-07-20 20:06:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, very.
You both need to seek mental therapy. And don't listen to these liberals who say that it doesn't matter that a woman is lot older. She would have been your babysitter a few years ago.
13 years would be okay if you were the one who was 41.
2007-07-20 20:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Ok let me give you a little advice from my own experience. First of all I know many of us say age does not matter,but it does. I am 53 and married to a handsome great guy who is only 39. We have been together for 6yrs and have had alot of good times and some not so good. First of all yea,the sex is probably great at first, But eventually she will age even more and you will want to do things like go to concerts,or out with the boys,or other things that just do not include her . You will have younger friends as well. Why don't you two just live together and enjoy life. Don't get married and ruin a good friendship. I love my husband but I can't keep up with him and his young friends,I feel foolish sometimes. I am a nice looking woman who looks younger than my age,but believe me,I know and it hurts sometimes. Follow your heart but don't jump into something you may be sorry for later. Live with her and have fun.
2007-07-20 20:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Lonely, age is only number that we carry each years, as long as the two of you are in love that will not matter. Secondly she will be good to you because she already has the experience on how to treat a man as a man,(also in bed). So forget what friends says about how old she is, and for Pete sake don't even go to your family so she will not be hammered on how old the woman is. Just follow your heart and from there be happy for what you have now....
2007-07-21 03:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong, in principle, about getting married to an older woman. But in your case there is quite a difference in age between you and your girlfriend. Often when there's such a large age gap things don't work out because the people aren't at the same maturity level or place in their lives as far as their ambitions and goals. I think there's some reason to consider this carefully.
2007-07-20 20:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm 6 years older then my husband and there's what a 13 year diff in yours? Why would it be OK for a women to marry a man 13 yrs older then her if it's not ok for the guy to marry with the women 13 yrs older? That's just stupid. You love her and she loves you, go for it.
2007-07-20 20:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thisis coming from a guy.
I'm 28 myself, AHHH, LOL, Dude that's a little older than i had in mind of older, I would have thought like 5 years older, but, 41, that's 13 years,
It's up to you man, but i know how I'd feel about it.
2007-07-20 20:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by the d 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
imagine yourself 10 years from now, she is 51 years and you are only 38, the middle age of men who are very strong at that age. Female at 45 to 50 usually are on their menepousal stage. faster and quickly ageing after the menepous stage.
Think twice, before going into a may-september relationship. Not unless you really loves her.
2007-07-20 20:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by dhel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! She's old enough to be your mother. I would never even marry a guy who's the same age as me. Women always age faster than men and I think that she should always look younger than her man.
2007-07-20 20:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rahima Liverpool 4 life 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's shameful, no.
You are both adults and capable of making your own decisions, and as long as neither of you are coerced into marriage and it's a legal marriage, then it's not shameful. It's not the most common thing for such an age gap between partners, but it's not insurmountable, either.
2007-07-20 20:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and compatability knows no bounds. If you are comfortable, doesn't matter what we the people think. Love your wife if she treats you right and makes you happy!! If anybody says differently, they are probably just jealous. It would be shameful if she were 41 and your were 16. Get it, got it, good!! Good Luck!!
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2007-07-20 20:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may love her with all your heart and want to marry but can you handle all the external pressures and looks from the outside world? It's easy to say who cares but reality is they will effect you and your relationship. If you feel the relationship is strong enough to endure all the negativity that surrounds you, then more power to you!!!
2007-07-20 21:07:06 · answer #11 · answered by single_n_hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋