self asteem question?

Question

ok I'm a very shy person,and very self drawn when I first meet poeple,I want to work at victorias secret and you have to be a salesperson.How can be more confident.

Answer 1

This is easy.

Dress sexy and go to a club.
Get hammered, and dance with anyone and everyone.
Bring someone home, if they're special.
Repeat as often as needed.

Answer 2

To be more confident, I would start by getting to know the merchandise. My wife was a retail clothing saleswoman for 20 years. The best tips she told me were:

1) Know your products and where to find them.

2) Always say hi to the customer within 15 secs of them entering the store and always look them in the eyes.

3) Go talk to the other salespersons in the store. If you can be more comfortable around them, you will feel more at ease.

4) Try on some of the lingerie (in private). Do you like it? How would you tell your friends about it? That's exactly how you would tell a customer (but only if they ask!)

5) Try arranging mirrors in your room so that you see reflections of yourself as you walk around. Working in a retail store is much similar...

6) Try watching people sometime in public (at a mall or in a park... etc). Rate them on how good they look in the clothing they are wearing. What would look better on them? When you can do this, that's a big step in being a good salesperson!

Answer 3

True Self-ishness always leads to joy, because it is motivated always by
the desire to feel as good as possible. It is only when we are Self-ish
enough to be, do and act in accordance with our desires (not someone
else’s) that it is possible to stay balanced. Energetically speaking, a
desire is a rush of life force energy, a connection to the divine inner
self, which can never result in actions that are harmful. It is only
when true desires are blocked that they become twisted and ugly. This
statement goes against the common wisdom that human nature is greedy,
violent and primitive. Human nature is precisely the opposite: we are
born knowing ourselves as powerful, eternal, spiritual beings. Petty,
competitive, churlish and violent behavior must be
overcome with suitable practice. Observe your family, friends
and coworkers. Almost all of them are good people, trying to do the best
they can. It would simply not be possible to build a sophisticated
society if human nature was so base. All successful societies are based
upon cooperation, not competition. Competition works not because it is
adversarial, but because it inspires teamwork. Ask two angry guys to get
something constructive done, it is not going to happen. All
success is based upon cooperation. That is because we live in an
attraction based universe.

These natural impulses are supposed to be dangerous because they stem
from a primitive survival instinct. But human being has a bette mind
than animals. Just look around at the mess the world is in! But that is
a delusional assertion, a denial of the basic nature of consciousness
itself. The natural impulses of human nature stem from a connection to
life force, and it is resistance to this divine impulse which causes the
selfish behavior people object to.

If you observe people you will quickly see that those persons who are
most alive are full of desire, and those who look lifeless have little
or no desire. Desire = life force. Shut off desire = selfish behavior.
It's ironic that selfish behavior actually results from self-denial.

Human nature is not a primitive, biological instinct based on survival
of the fittest, it’s a pure connection to source energy. It is divine.
It's only when that connection is closed off that selfish behavior is
demonstrated. Every one of your desires is, in its non-resisted state,
joyful and balanced, because that is an inherent property of
consciousness itself. True selfishness is allowance of desire, without
resistance, and results in the impulse to give freely to others. But it
is first necessary to allow that impulse within yourself.

http://kjmaclean.com/Selfishness.html

Meditation and Yoga will remove
bad aspects of selfishness.

Answer 4

well being very confident i am pretty sure that being shy is a disease and it can be cured in the mirror i used to practice talking to other people...i was five but obviously it worked it took courage to ask this question and here people criticism wheather good or bad so just start by going to small places and interaducing yourself to people

Answer 5

step 1: look in the mirror
step 2: raise hand
step 3: slap yourself on the face a couple times..
step 4: go get the job

thats what i did when i wanted to work at mcdonalds

Answer 6

I was going to say to picture everyone you wait on in their underwear.... but I guess working there you will see everyone in their underwear. After you make a few sales and you see that first commission check youll open right up and do just fine.

Answer 7

goodnight IM TIRED

Answer 8

JUS DO WAT I DO BABI...SELF-TALK JUS LOOK IN THA MIRROR AND BE LYKE "I CAN DO THIS ****..***** IM ME I KNOW IMA GET THEZE MUTHFUCKIN SALES OFF. HAHAHA JUS BE MORE AGRESSIVE