We want to give a rose to eachother's mothers during our ceremony. We found this speech. How can we make this so our fathers don't feel left out?
2007-07-20 19:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by jennylk81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give them something at the same time!
A handkerchief or Cigars or something .
2007-07-20 19:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by kissmeagainnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt that the father's would feel left out unless they are greedy, petty, selfish, etc. etc. Its just part of the ceremony for crying out loud. Good luck to you. If you really do think they might feel "left out" why not give them a rose too? But then you risk the Mom's feeling hurt because they had to share the rose presentation instead of it just being something special for them. Good luck whatever you decide.
2007-07-20 19:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by why 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think they will feel left out. You can talk to them ahead of time and tell them what you are going to do. I am sure both fathers will be pleased with what you are doing.
The rose presentation sounds like a wonderful idea. What a nice way to honor each others moms.
2007-07-20 19:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A perfect way to have a little laughter/aw from your audience; give something special for the Dad's (greatest Dad pendant) be creative. As you have said, so they would not feel left out. Because after all you do not want to project that you have left out another very important part of the family. I see these pins all the time World's greatest Volunteer..... the company will put on the pin whatever you like. All the best to you.
2007-07-20 20:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Titus12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the dad's fishing gear and a cold pack so they can get to know each other.
If it's about including them in the presentation, the dads could give the mother inlaw the roses. Or at least hold the roses.
2007-07-20 19:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.TwoCrows 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just include the dads in the speech...unless it only pertains to moms.
If you want to "give" something to the dads, how about "I'll never come back home and ask for money?" They'll love it!
Just kidding........
Give them a rose as well...it's a sentiment, not really a gift.
2007-07-20 19:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by telling him and ure mother that the rose is for them both =]
2007-07-20 19:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is give your Dad a big hug. He won't need anything more.
2007-07-20 19:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do it as planned. Don't worry about the dads!
2007-07-21 03:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋