From Christian religion, ( I am catholic and I didn't wait till marraige) But I am just wondering...from this religion, if couples aren't having sex, which is fine, what are they allowed to do? Are they not allowed to make the other person go, such as you know, four play and such? Only Kissing allowed? What is allowed? Because I'm thinking they are trying to stay pure, so, is it only kissing that is allowed?
2007-07-20 18:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think it's about a distinct line; there is no rule in the Bible that says "Thou mayest kiss and get to first base, but no more.".
Instead, it's about what it means to you. The way I see it is like this: you are keeping your bodies as the Lord's temples. You respect others' bodies by not touching or looking at them intimately without having first made a vow of love, care, and commitment. What does that mean to you? To me, it means that sensual nudity isn't allowed, and neither any exploratory touching of the genitals. But that's just me- others may have different guidelines.
Just keep in mind that what you're doing isn't about abiding by any rules, such as "Oh no! I touched a naughty part! I'm going to hell!", but about your relationship with God and how you honor Him through your sexual actions. It requires thought and prayer, not just random denunciations of certain acts.
2007-07-21 07:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you put this in the wrong section here, but whatever.
There is no set rules besides the sex before marriage thing. Some beleive in the less you do the more pure you are. I heard of one girl who didn't kiss her husband till their wedding for example.
I think it's up to the individual and what God has called them to do.
2007-07-21 02:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by netbug009 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the Christian religion, if it's fun, it's not allowed.
2007-07-21 02:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Wise@ss 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Reby is right, maybe you should ask the religion section, but i do believe only a kiss is allowed
2007-07-21 02:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by qaz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try asking in the religion and spirituality section. This is the wrong place to ask.
2007-07-21 02:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by king reby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't use the word "pure". There is nothing pure about celibacy. Celibacy is unnatural and unhealthy.
2007-07-21 02:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Convert to satanism theres no restrictions on what you do and dont do before marriage
2007-07-21 02:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by huhuhuhuh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋