Just last week we were doing a group project at my best-friend's house. Later that day as I went to their kitchen to drink some water, i saw my best-friend's mom and boyfriend flirting with each other in the dining area. At first i didn't mind them because her mom is always friendly with our guy friends. So went to the kitchen. When I came back, they were already humping on the dining table! I was so shocked that I almost knocked a large vase. Good thing they were so busy that they didn't hear a thing. Up-to know I still haven't told my best-friend what i witnessed. what should I do?
2007-07-20 18:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
next time make a reason why your friend should go in the room. if YOU tell her, you'll be the bad guy and believe me, they already have their excuses ready
2007-07-20 18:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you would like for your friend to learn the truth and everyone here agrees that she needs to know but this is her mother and boyfriend we are talking about. I don't think she will believe you but I do think she will get very mad at you for saying horrible things about her mom and bf. The choice is yours of course but personally I would not tell her. I think it might end your friendship. Ever have someone swear that you are a liar when you are telling the absolute truth? Doesn't feel nice does it? That is what I predict will happen and both of you will end up crying. I believe the truth will come out eventually. Mom and or bf will make a mistake and get caught. If it's not with this bf then it will be with a different guy. Your friends mother is cheap and has no morals to do this to her own daughter. When your friend finds out, she will need a strong shoulder to cry on. You can have a different bf every week for the rest of your life but you only have one mother and this one is a poor excuse for motherhood! I wish you and your friend luck and I wish "mom" would get a conscience.
2007-07-21 02:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by checkthisout! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that she is your best friend and that is her mom, but you are supposed to have her back no matter what even if the shoe was on the other foot and she caught your mom and bf humping wouldn't you want to know? Even if she does not believe you you have to tell her what you saw and to prove it to her you tell her in front of him so he would not lie and come up with some lame excuse. And when you tell her go into details so he would not say that you were making it up and that the only reason that you are saying this is because you want him. How she deals with her mom is up to her, but you have to be there for her and if you want to be there when she confronts her mom you should. What she has done to her daughter is unforgivable and is wrong and she should be ashamed of herself for doing something like that to her own kid. What you are about to do and say will destroy a lot of people especially a mom and daughter relationship, but for her mom to do this it had to be messed up already and she does not care about her child nor her feelings. Just make sure that what ever you do that you be there for her and tell her that what they did is not her fault.
2007-07-21 02:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God... this is difficult. If you tell her, she almost certainly won't believe you. She will think you are jealous or something. Maybe you can make her find out for herself somehow. Do whatever you think is best. Oh wow... I know this must be a burden on you. I would try not to get too involved, but make it so she finds out somehow, and soon. Good luck!
2007-07-21 01:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, what kind of group projects do you do? You should have made yourself known to them that would have changed the question a lot, be very careful but perhaps suggest a what if scene to your friend and maybe a little ,I think you should watch out for, line might be helpful.
2007-07-21 01:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter. It's natural for a Philipino man to need more than he can support. He'll find a woman who will work overseas so he can keep his girlfriends. If this woman really knocked off her daughter's boyfriend she's probably not real Philipina.
2007-07-21 02:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Caretaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad 4 u u saw it! And I think u should tell her but she might not listen and don't get mad at her but help her realize that she don't need him!
2007-07-21 01:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! And then tell his parents. Your friend's mother is a pervert who is seducing an under-aged boy.
2007-07-21 02:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by JM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you get great grades in creative writing.... A+ for that piece of work. Now you can think up an answer to go with it....
2007-07-21 01:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should if you were a good friend you would tell her!!
2007-07-21 01:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋